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How Smart People Deal with People They Don’t Like
如何巧妙应对讨厌的人？
They bear with (not ignore or dismiss ) those they don’t like.
不忽略、不回避，默默容忍不喜欢的人
Sure, you may cringe at his constant criticism, grit your teeth at her lousy jokes, or shake your head at the way he hovers around her all the time, but feeling less than affectionate to someone might not be the worst thing.“From a performance standpoint, liking the people you manage too much is a bigger problem than liking them too little,”says Sutton.
你有可能会害怕面对那些来自不喜欢的人的无尽的指责。虽然这种情感会让我们不喜欢一个人，但也未必是什么坏事。Sutton说：“从行为学角度看，过分喜欢一个人与不喜欢一个人相比，前者更容易产生问题。”
“You need people who have different points of view and aren’t afraid to argue,”Sutton adds.“They are the kind of people who stop the organization from doing stupid things.”It may not be easy, but bear with them. It is often those who challenge or provoke us that prompt us to new insights and help propel the group to success. Remember, you are not perfect either, yet people still tolerate you.
Sutton认为：“尤其是领导，需要有一些与其观点不同、敢于和其争论的人在身边。这些人会阻止团队做出愚蠢的决定。”容忍他们或许不是一件简单的事，但是你必须做到。因为这些挑战寻衅的人往往会促使我们找到新的切入点，帮助团队获得成功。要记住，你也不是一个完美的人，或许别人也在容忍你。
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