可可Radio第68期:学会沉默-大家在八卦时(2)
日期:2013-02-28 13:55
(单词翻译:单击)
可可电台,每期节目一话题,让英语磨练耳朵的同时学到更多有益的小知识,丰富知识的同时受益于生活。
学会沉默-大家在八卦时
When people are gossiping
大家在八卦时
People love gossiping and many of us can't help it.
人们都爱八卦,这是大家没法控制的事情。
It's refreshing. It makes life seem a bit better.
八卦能让人精神振奋,似乎生活也变得更好了。
But the next time you hear gossiping, especially about your friends, try holding your tongue.
但如果你听到了一些八卦,尤其是关于你朋友的,还是闭上嘴吧。
Listen to what the gossiper is saying, it may reveal a lot about both parties.
听听那些聊八卦的人在说什么,也许能让你更加了解自己的朋友。
Instead of being like “yeahh, she is a b*$$#,” trysaying "well, she's trying her hardest" and see what the response is.
与其说:“是啊,她真的很贱。” 不如说:“我知道她已经很努力了”,看看别人的反应。
Deny yourself that tiny pleasure from putting someone else down.
别让自己的小快乐建立在贬低别人的基础上。