可可Radio第1020期:为什么你朋友很少-你抱怨,重色轻友,很自私(6)
日期:2015-10-09 19:00

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Why don't you have lots of friends?

为什么你朋友很少?

You Complain A Lot

你总是抱怨

If you're constantly complaining about your job,lack of money, or unfair life, people won't care to spend a lot of time withyou. Complaining gets old fast. Try to develop a more positive attitude and look for more interesting topics to discuss rather than what's going wrong in your life.

如果你一直喋喋不休地抱怨工作,抱怨钱少,或是抱怨生命的不公,那旁人就会不屑花费过多的时间在你身上。再者,抱怨让人老得快。所以要培养一份更乐观的态度,并用更风趣的话题来代替你的碎碎念。

You Ditch Your Friends When You're in a Relationship

重色轻友

If you're guilty of ditching your friends every timeyou begin dating someone new, it's likely your friends won't sit around and wait to hear your breakup story. Instead, they'll move on without you. It's important to find a balance between spending time with your pals and your latest romantic interest.

每当开始约会新的对象时,若你很愧疚地忽视朋友,那你的朋友可能就不会在你分手时陪伴左右,听你诉苦。并且,在他们的人生蓝图里你将不复存在。所以,在老友和新欢之间找到时间的平衡至关重要。

You're Selfish

你很自私

Consider whether or not being selfish contributes to the fact that you don't have friends. Friendship requires you to give, evenwhen you don't feel like it. If you're only willing to do what you want, when you want it, it's unlikely that your friends will tolerate it for very long.

你对于是否自私的态度直接影响着你有无朋友。友情需要付出,即便有时你不怎么愿意。若你只是随心所欲地行事,关于你的任性,朋友们可能不会长时间忍受下去。


【知识点津】

ditch vt.摆脱,抛弃;在…上掘沟;把…开入沟里;使(火车)出轨

例句:

The bicycle lay upended in a ditch.

自行车翻倒在一条小水沟里。


contribute vt.& vi.贡献出;捐赠(款项);投稿(给杂志等);出力

例句:

You need not feel obliged to contribute.

你不必觉得非捐款不可。


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重点单词
  • unlikelyadj. 不太可能的
  • willingadj. 愿意的,心甘情愿的
  • complainvi. 抱怨,悲叹,控诉
  • guiltyadj. 有罪的,内疚的
  • contributevt. 捐助,投稿 vi. 投稿,贡献,是原因之一
  • constantlyadv. 不断地,经常地
  • romanticadj. 浪漫的 n. 浪漫的人
  • toleratevt. 容忍,忍受