可可Radio第2004期:聊天中常犯的错误-你是否真的在倾听?(8)
日期:2018-07-10 18:36

(单词翻译:单击)

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Most common mistakes in a conversatio

聊天中常犯的错误

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Are you rude to the person you’re talking to?

你是否对待和你聊天的人很粗鲁?

You think you’re better than your talking partner so you don’t think about respecting their opinions. Sure, you use polite language and you mind your manners, but your words offend and your attitude challenges them.

你认为你比和你聊天的人要更棒,所以你不去尊重他们的观点。当然,你用语礼貌,举止文明,但你的话语冒犯了他们,你的态度是在挑衅。

Solution: How you communicate is better than what you communicate. Before you aim to communicate, aim to respect first.

解决办法:你沟通的方式比你沟通的内容更重要。你在想要沟通之前,要先学会尊重。

Is your body language driving them away?

你的肢体语言是否把他人赶跑了?

You would like to start communicating with people but no one seems to want to talk to you. Why? Your arms are crossed, you’re slouching and your eyebrows are furrowed—that’s why.

你想要和他人开始聊天,但好像没有人愿意和你聊。为什么?你抱着双臂,无精打采,眉头紧皱——这就是原因。

Solution: Relax.Communication is all about openness and community. Look at people in the eye. Smile more. Stand up straight. You got this.

解决办法:放松。交流是关于坦率和群体的活动。眼睛看着对方,多一些微笑,站直。你就做到了。


【知识点讲解】

drive away 驱车离开; 把…驱开,赶走; 祛

例句:

The President had his plane waiting, 20 minutes' drive away.

总统让飞机在20分钟车程的地方等着。

Without a shotgun you cannot drive away the wolves and jackals.

不用猎枪,赶不走豺狼.

You'd better drive away your cares.

你最好摆脱烦恼.


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重点单词
  • rudeadj. 粗鲁的,无礼的 adj. 粗糙的,粗野的
  • planeadj. 平的,与飞机有关的 n. 飞机,水平,水准,刨
  • solutionn. 解答,解决办法,溶解,溶液
  • communityn. 社区,社会,团体,共同体,公众,[生]群落
  • partnern. 搭档,伙伴,合伙人 v. 同 ... 合作,做 .
  • communicatev. 交流,传达,沟通
  • offendvt. 犯罪,冒犯 vi. 令人不适,违反
  • communicationn. 沟通,交流,通讯,传达,通信
  • opennessn. 公开;宽阔;率真
  • minutesn. 会议记录,(复数)分钟