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How to deal with horrible people
如何跟烦人的人打交道
The Manipulative Jerk
好指使人的混蛋
So we've talked about annoying people, but what about the people that are actually mean, manipulative, or downright evil?
我们讨论了该如何应对令人讨厌的人，但那些卑鄙、好指使人或非常坏的人该如何应对呢?
Sometimes these can be harder to spot, because they'll often make you feel like you're the problem. They'll play on your guilt, conceal their evil in altruism, or exploit your sympathies, and the sooner you realize what's really happening, the sooner you can begin to confront the mand root them out for good.
有时候这些人可能更难发觉，因为他们往往会让你觉得自己才是有问题的那个人。他们会利用你的内疚，通过自我牺牲来掩盖他们的邪恶，或者利用你的同情心，你越早意识到实际发生的问题，你就可以越早地开始面对他们并彻底纠出他们。
Don't let them argue with you, either—if they're truly manipulative, you need to end the relationship and move on without letting them retaliate.
不要让他们与你争吵，如果他们真的好指使人，你需要断绝与他们的往来，继续过好你的生活，不要让他们报复。
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