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Ella. Ella. Ella, slow down.
埃拉 埃拉 埃拉 等等
Ella, listen.
埃拉 听我说
Do you want to go somewhere
你想找个地方
and figure out how we're gonna deal with this?
看看我们该怎么解决这件事吗
Deal with what?
解决什么
Mike has never picked a fight before in his life.
这之前迈克从来没有惹过事
Well, I guess there's a first time for everything.
我想每件事情都有第一次
Did you know that Aria had been skipping her classes?
你知道艾瑞亚开始学会翘课了吗
Did I know?
你问我知道吗
As in, am I not keeping close enough tabs on our children?
你是在说我不够关心孩子吗
No, I'm not.
不 我不是这个意思
Or maybe I'm just too trusting.
也或许我只是太相信他们了
No, I am not being critical, okay?
我不是在责怪你
I m just saying that I think that we should be
我只是觉得我们现在应该
putting the focus on them right now, not us.
把精力放在他们身上 而不是我们自己
We made a decision.
我们已经做出决定了
Yeah, and that was before our kids
没错 但那是在我们的孩子
started spinning out of control.
开始失控之前
Okay, look, I'm not moving out now.
好吧 听着 我目前不会搬出去
They need us.
他们需要我们
You don't get to play Mr. Moral
别再装什么好好先生了
when you're the one who threw this family into chaos.
是你把全家弄的一团糟
They'll get through this.
他们会熬过去的
They're angry and confused
他们之所以会这样
because we're angry and confused.
是因为我们生气和困惑
The sooner we sort this out,
我们尽快解决问题
the sooner they will feel like they can rely on us again.
他们就会再次感到他们可以依赖我们
Well, they can rely on us.
他们可以依赖我们
Maybe. Someday.
也许吧 某一天
But it's not gonna help them to pretend
但是这对他们假装
like everything is fine between us,
我们之间没有问题并无帮助
because it's not.
因为我们的关系并不好
You're not my child, you're not my roommate,
你不是我的孩子 也不是我的室友
and you can't sleep on a couch in the den
你不能在房间的沙发上睡觉
like some drunk uncle.
像个喝醉的叔叔一样

重点解释

原文:As in, am I not keeping close enough tabs on our children?你是在说我不够关心孩子吗?
【enough的用法】
enough作形容词，意思是"足够的;充分的"，常与for sb to do连用，可以作定语或表语。作定语置于被修饰的名词前后均可，前置时强调enough，后置时强调被修饰词.
简而言之，enough和形容词在一起的时候就在形容词的后面，如常用的big enough ,如果和名词在一起就放在名词的前面，enough money。

原文:Yeah, and that was before our kids started spinning out of control.没错,但那是在我们的孩子开始失控之前。
【control短语扩展】
out of control：
不受控制;失去控制
The plane got out of control and crashed into the sea.
飞机失控,坠入大海。

under control：
处于控制之下
You should learn to keep your temper under control.
你应该学会控制自己的脾气。

in control of：
a. 控制(掌握,管理)
1. Enemy forces are in control of the city.
敌军控制著这座城市.
2. Who's in control of the project?
谁是这个项目的负责人?
3. Lost control of the skidding car; the leaders in control of the country.
打滑的汽车失去控制；管理国家的领导人们

in/under the control of：
在...控制下
He was in the control of evil men and forced to do wicked things.
他被坏人控制,被迫做了坏事。

over control：
超调现象