Dear Annie:

亲爱的Annie:

I've been dating "Josh" for just over a month.

我和Josh已经约会一个多月了pCh^q(FhNc;T(p!8j。

We were instant friends and started off our romance slowly.

我们一下子就成了朋友，慢慢地就开始暧昧,4!3Q2%UZE.yBw。

He lives two hours away and sees me on weekends.

他住的地方离我这儿大概要两个小时，而他每周都会来看我Uyrl.s+*)YZ-8.j3vP。

This past weekend, Josh told me he is falling in love and wants me to move in with him.

就在上周，Josh告诉我，他爱上我了，想让我搬去和他住r#5Sw+zL~_fco%Y381~i。

Here's the problem.

问题就出在这儿了f]i8~5hlk7ajlh。

Last night, he said that although he loves me, he is so accustomed to being single that he isn't sure he'll be able to refuse if a woman tempts him.

昨晚，他说尽管他已经爱上我了，但他已经习惯了一个人，所以并不能确定如果有人来诱惑他，他能不能抵挡的住s!.WkD^U5Jl)j+。

I was devastated.

我崩溃了Q6ewDxteOzZuPCUNkh)&。

I told him everyone has to fight temptation, but he has to think I'm worth it.

我告诉他每个人都必须抵制诱惑，但他要相信我是值得让他这么做的人Q_mC)T16mkTBc,9g0x,@。

I don't want to stay with a man who says he loves me, but could be with someone else whenever he gets the urge.

我不想和一个整天说爱我却抵制不住别人诱惑的人在一起PC&e[4!g(mLiG]~j=。

Should I walk away before I am so far in that I can't leave?

在还没到不能离开他的时候我是不是应该选择离开？

I'm hurt, mad and surprised all at the same time. － Not Whimsical in Alabama

我既痛苦又疯狂又意外b-7[YV~@rP;G][TkwTe。我不是在异想天开啊CdyIhCbxModV(7,8rwW。

Dear Alabama:

亲爱的Alabama:

Josh is telling you in advance that he's going to cheat and he thinks he's giving you a plausible excuse to accept it.

Josh是在提前告诉你，他会欺骗你，而且他还为那个谎言做出了个合理的解释0CSi&CXDjzx。

Tell him it's been fun, but you need a more stable, committed relationship than what he is offering.

告诉他你们在一起的时光很有趣，但你需要的是一个更稳定更充实的恋爱关系，而非他现在所提供的的这些LOkYW3a|!(ggp!8c。

And, by the way, moving in after a month of dating is not "taking it slowly."

对了顺便说一下，在一个月的约会之后就搬到一起绝不是“慢慢来”L4P6uP|sKQ*K5.BbX8+。

It's racing at light speed.

这是在以光速发展Sx9_w]1&h7s*。