(单词翻译:单击)
Love Guide
爱情指南
Are you really in love? Being in love is a powerful feeling. The emotions are intense.
你确实在恋爱吗?堕入爱河是一种轰轰烈烈的感情 。情感是激烈的 。
It is so exciting that it may be hard to concentrate on school, work, or family responsibilities.
爱情在激荡,使人无法专心学习、工作或专注于家庭责任 。
Sometimes people confuse real love with the possessive love seen on TV or in the movies.
有时,人们错把真正的爱情与电视或电影上看到的独占的爱混为一谈 。
They believe that love is only love at first sight. But real, mature love takes time to develop.
他们以为一见钟情才叫爱 。然而,真正的、成熟的爱是要花时间来培养的 。
Many teens believe they are in love. They may be in love in an immature way.
许多青少年以为他们恋爱了 。那可能是不成熟的爱 。
Sometimes teens or adults in love give up all their friends. They stop doing activities they enjoy.
有时,恋爱中的青少年或者成年人放弃了所有的培养 。他们也不再做喜欢做的事 。
Some have jealous partners that never let them be alone or with another person.
有些人的恋人爱吃醋,不让他们独处,也不允许他们跟别人在一起 。
They are jealous any time their loved one talks to another person.
一旦看到所爱的人跟他人讲话,爱吃醋的恋人便醋意大发 。
Others are forced to do things they do not want to do. There is a saying that "love is blind."
而另外一些人则被迫做一些他们本不想做的事情 。俗语说,爱是盲目的 。
What we think is love may distort our ability to see the real relationship.
被我们当成爱的东西可能会妨碍我们看到我们恋爱关系的本质 。
Mature love lets you be you. People in mature love have common interests, and are honest with each other.
成熟的爱让你做你自己 。经历成熟爱情的人们有共同的兴趣,并终于彼此 。
People who share mature love do not see the other person as the solution to their problems.
共享成熟之爱的人不把对方当成问题的解决办法 。
They see the other person as a wonderful gift. They spend time with each other's families and friends.
而是看成一件奇妙的礼物 。他们花时间与对方的家人和培养在一起 。
Mature love relationships do not cause people to give up their values.
成熟的恋爱关系不会使人放弃自己的价值观 。