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如果你争斗为了你自己，你只赢了爱人，而你斗争为了你的婚姻，你俩才都是赢家。

Look Out for No.2

There is a powerful healing energy that emanates from loving.Lasting love can learn to sense it,send it and make it grow. We are energized by love if we put our energy into loving.

Bad energy springs from conflicts that arise when two egos collide. When I watch husbands and wives argue with each other, I want to shout:"Grow up,stop fighting,start loving!"It is bettter to learn how to love than how to fight. Dont't try to win in your marriage, win for your marriage.

Marriage is designed primarily for giving rather than taking, It is meant to be a permanent union of two unselfish people. As one husband told me,"The old saying was "Look out for Number one",But we 've learned to "Look out for Number two."If you fight for yourself,only you can win. When you fight for your marriage, you both win.

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爱能释放出一种强大到起治疗康复作用的能量。持续长久的爱能让人学会去感知，释放并加强增长这种能量。如果我们付出能量给爱，我们就会体验到这种能量使我们充满激情而活力四射。

相反的恶能也会从两个自私自我的人的争吵和矛盾冲突中迸发出来。每当我看到夫妻彼此争吵不休时仅不住想大吼：“成熟点吧，别再闹了，开始爱吧！”学会爱吧而不是学会怎样去争论和争吵。千万别努力去争取成为你婚姻中赢的一方。而要努力成为为你婚姻而努力的赢家。

婚姻原本是给予而不是索取，它意味着两个没有私心的人永久的联合。有个做丈夫的曾对我说：“俗话说人都要先为自己着想，”但是我们学会了“为他人着想照顾爱人的利益”。如果你争斗为了你自己，你只赢了爱人，而你斗争为了你的婚姻，你俩才都是赢家。