最给力的英语生活口语:如何避免冷场?
日期:2011-08-08 11:17

(单词翻译:单击)

The English We Speak是英国BBC电台为英语学习者量身打造的一档英语学习节目。
本期节目,两位主持人聊到了关于聊天的时候需要的icebreak,那么icebreaker是什么呢?让我们跟随录音去学习一下。

Wang Fei: Hello and welcome to The English We Speak. I'm Wang Fei.

Rob: And I'm Rob Carter.

Wang Fei: Rob, I'm going on a hot date tomorrow and I'm feeling a bit nervous now. I think I need your help.

Rob: Hmm. It is a scary thing to do. What you need is some kind of icebreaker.

Wang Fei: An icebreaker? That sounds quite cold!

Rob: Don't worry, it's not. But an icebreaker has got something to do with warming up a cold situation. It will make things more relaxed.

Wang Fei: An icebreaker is something you can do or some words you can say to make people feel relaxed. So an icebreaker will make things less formal?

Rob: Yes, that's right. Doing something or saying something at the start will hopefully make your date more relaxed and less tense.

Wang Fei: I see. An icebreaker will make people feel more relaxed. Maybe I should sing a song or do a dance?!

Rob: Now that's a bit over the top – why not start with a joke?

Wang Fei: If singing or dancing is a bit over the top, or too much, I will think of a joke then.
• Telling a joke is an excellent icebreaker.
• That party needed an icebreaker to make it less formal!
Wang Fei: So just now we heard people using icebreaker in their conversation. Rob, does icebreaker literally mean breaking the ice?

Rob: It does. You can do it when you start a new job. Everything feels so formal that it's good to break the ice. We British can be a bit reserved or formal so it's good if someone can break the ice.

Wang Fei: Yes, I agree. Sometimes British people can be quite reserved and formal. Rob I'm not good at jokes. Do you have any I can use?

Rob: Let's have a think. How about telling this one? "With my last girlfriend it was love at first sight – then I took a second look!"

Wang Fei: It's a good joke. But honestly, did it work for you?

Rob: Um... It didn't actually. But it might be good for you!

Wang Fei: Hmm... Actually I think I would rather find a good story on our website as an icebreaker.

Rob: Yes. Don't forget our website is a good place to learn some English phrases that might help you break the ice at a party.

Wang Fei: And our website is...

Rob: www.bbclearningenglish.com. Bye-bye.

Wang Fei: Bye!

赏析:
Icebreaker即“打破僵局、避免冷场、让人放松”的话,比如录音中提到的笑话。Ice是“冰”的意思,如果两个人在一起有些尴尬,冷场,那么就像两个人之间有一层冰,这个时候就需要someone breaks the ice了,也就是说一些避免冷场的话,英语中,一个笑话,或者谈谈天气,都是很好的icebreaker。如果你和Wang Fei一样有心,也不妨私底下多准备一些icebreaker,这样和朋友在一起的时候,就能更加轻松,更加开心。
其他语言点:
A bit over the top: 有点过分了;
Reserved: 拘谨的

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重点单词
  • reservedadj. 保留的,预订的,冷淡的,缄默的
  • robv. 抢劫,掠夺
  • conversationn. 会话,谈话
  • relaxedadj. 放松的, 松懈的,随意的 relax的过去式(