1. Nothing wrong with a parent trying to set their kids up, so long as the kid is receptive to it. And at times it works out and a happy ending follows.
2. The parents may mean well, but it's not appreciated when they tell their daughters that you're too old to get a good man, or that you have to take on any guy who wants you.
3. I've been married 46 years and it hasn't been easy and that's with someone I wanted to marry. So to be forced or pushed to marry someone you don't know would be very tough going.