No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on. But if she can't seem to function without you, you'll eventually suffocate, and if you're smart you'll run for the nearest exit.
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored or complacent.
cry on 请求，恳求，祈求；
Roland sometimes saw me as a shoulder to cry on.
He was a fatherly shoulder to cry on when things went wrong.
Mrs Barrantes longs to be at her daughter's side to offer her a shoulder to cry on.