Let go of the way life should have gone.
Resisting the job loss causes more pain.
Sometimes you know why you were fired, sometimes you just don't.
Don't waste any time figuring it out. Be mature about anything you feel may have contributed to it. See the difference between reality and illusion (reality is you lost your job, illusion is you'll never find another job.)
Take a moment to go inside yourself, get silent and listen to your intuition. Some of your best ideas will come when you slow down enough and tune in.
figure out 计算出； 弄明白； 解决； 想出
They're trying to figure out the politics of this whole situation.
I can't figure out what he was hinting at.
Please figure out the total cost.
illusion n.错觉； 幻想； 错误观念； 假象
Sloping walls on the bulk of the building create an optical illusion.
She laboured under the illusion that I knew what I was doing.
This eerie calm is an illusion.