Ways to overcome your fear and turn strangers into new connections
Find common ground
While you're chatting with someone, pay attention to the things they seem to like—or notice where you are.
If you're at the car parts store, ask about their car interests. If you’re at the farmers’market, ask if they have a garden.
Find out if they have kids, go fishing, whatever. Most likely, you will have something to talk with this new person about.
chat with 与某人闲聊某事；
I thought I'd, you know, have a chat with you.
She had had a woman-to-woman chat with Mrs Hardie.
I had a chat with Lars in the morning and spoke Swedish.
Find out 发现； 使发作； 使受惩罚； 通过探询[访问]获悉（某人）不在
Find out how much your surveyor's and solicitor's fees will be.
In working with others, you find out more about yourself.
An investigation is underway to find out how the disaster happened.