Constantly Comparing Yourself To Your Peers
The pre-30 crisis feeds on comparison to others of the same age, and it can lead to a constant nagging feeling that your life doesn't measure up.
You may be going on Facebook to check up on former friends and enemies to see who has their adult like“together”-- and who doesn't.
But of course, in the end, neither outcome will make you feel better about your own situation. Sometimes.
Admit where you are, and refuse to be ashamed of it.
You're doing the best you can。
measure up 测量； 估计；
How does the food here measure up according to your nutrition standards?
按照你的营养标准来衡量这食物 怎么样 ?
We've been trying to measure up his chance.
Will you measure up or shall I?
be ashamed of 耻于…；
I felt incredibly ashamed of myself for getting so angry.
He knew full well he'd be ashamed of himself later.
You ought to be ashamed of yourselves. You've created this problem.