You Spent a Small Fortune on Yourself
Even in this day and age, many people still don't level with their spouses about how much they paid for some coveted service or item, like a salon treatment or a fancy new grill.
Indeed, it can be difficult to own up to, say, a $70 haircut at a chic salon when your husband shells out just $22at the barber.
But keeping money secrets in a relationship creates bigger conflicts down the road. Sure, in this economy,sharing such information may lead to a discussion about cutting back.
But your partner will also get a better understanding of what you value most—and those conversations will ultimately bring the two of you closer.
lead to 导致，引起；通向；把…带到
Too much work and too little rest often lead to illness.
keep secrets 保守秘密
You may as well keep it a secret.