You can't be all things—or do all things—for all people.
Learn to set your own limits
You end up doing things you actually want to do.
Limits free you up for more opportunity to do the work and activities that you actually desire to do.
You become a more understanding person.
When you're compassionate toward yourself about what you can tolerate, you're better able to express that to other people who have their own boundaries they want to follow.
end up <非正>（以…）结束； 最终成为[变得]； 最后处于；
We will end up living in a society where life is cheap.
There are those, you know, who, by circumstance, end up homeless.
The weakest students can end up with a negative score.
compassionate about 对...感到同情
When both parties are restrained and compassionate about each other's needs, they are mutually reinforcing.
He was quite incapable of any compassionate feeling about the boy, or about his fate. 对于那少年和他的命运,他根本不可能表示同情.
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