Now, add more, let's, let's continue emotional cheating here for a second, (Yes. )alright? It, it hit a nerve with those people. What'd the women in the poll say? Which would bother them more, emotional or physical?

Basically, seventy percent considered emotional cheating cheating. They basically said that they'd both bother them the same, but when said is the emotional cheating. If you guys are just talking to a woman, and thinking about a woman, and maybe having a lunch, is that cheating? Almost three quarters said yes.

Alright. The majority of the women said they would not take their husbands back if they found out that he had cheated. What did . . . , the poll say about whether women would cheat?

Well, this is where the polling statistics kinda fly at each other. ur. . Statistically, fifty percent of the women and men in this country supposedly cheat. Eighty percent of the women in the poll said they had not cheated. Now once again,

So you can't believe them, right?

Er, well, that flies in the face of (which means defy, oppose)statistics but it was interesting when I asked these women in a group and I started to pull it apart . Do a lot of women you know? Are they faithful? Would they cheat? Certainly, I was not getting an eighty percent no from that.

And by the way, the question you asked them was "would you cheat on your husband if you were guaranteed that you wouldn't get caught" (yeah) which is a pretty wide open question.

Yeah, and what's really, really interesting is when I asked them, are they married to their ideal men, two-thirds said yes. But at the same time, you know, do you fantasize about other men? A third said yes, they fantasize about other men. So, you know, this is a little. . .

Now, what're you, what're you tackling tomorrow?

Tackling tomorrow? Basically sex versus friendship, which is more important in a relationship? Cuddling or intercourse? Amazing when you ask a woman, would you rather cuddle? Would you rather have sex? We got a nation of cuddlers out there. And for us guys, we got some to learn there.

It's hard to believe that we are talking about this. (Yes, it is. ) Actually. But anyway, Donny Deutsch thanks very much. And if you want more information about this, check out our website at today. msnbc. com and you can catch more of Donny's insights on this topic on the Big Idea with Donny Deutsch. That's tonight at 10/9 central time on CNBC.