(单词翻译:单击)
Do you sometimes wish you were an only child? Yeah, so does your irritating little brother or sister.
有时候是不是特别希望自己是独生子女?你那不愉快的弟弟或妹妹也是这么想的 。
You Will Need
你需要
Imagination
想象力
Self-control
自我控制
A little kindness
一点温和
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Find solutions
1.寻找解决方案
Figure out exactly what your little brother or sister does that annoys you, then come up with a plan. If your sibling always messes with your stuff, ask your parents if you can keep your bedroom door locked when you’re out.
找出你的弟弟或妹妹哪些行为激怒了你,然后制定计划 。如果他们老是把你的东西弄得乱七八糟,问一下你的父母,外出时能否把卧室门锁上 。
Don’t be mean. Your younger sibling looks up to you, so set a good example (even if you feel like yelling!).
不要苛刻 。你的弟弟妹妹总是在仰视你,所以做个好榜样,即使你非常想要大喊大叫!
STEP 2 Ignore him
2.忽视他
Try ignoring the little pest. Many times, younger siblings do annoying things for attention. If you ignore the bad behavior long enough, he’ll eventually give up.
尝试着忽视这个小害虫 。许多情况下,弟弟妹妹做让人生气的事情是为了引起你的注意 。如果你忽视坏的行为,他最终会放弃 。
Ignoring doesn't mean putting your hands over your ears and yelling, "La, la, la—I can't hear you." Remember, negative attention is still attention.
忽视并不意味着双手捂住耳朵,大喊“我听不到你说什么 。”记住,消极的注意仍然是注意 。
STEP 3 Make a deal
3.做交易
Make a deal. Say something like, 'If you give me some space while my friends are here, we can play your favorite board game after they leave.'
做一笔交易 。比如,“如果我的朋友在这里时你给我一点空间,他们离开后我就和你一起玩你最喜欢的棋盘游戏 。”
If your sibling is pestering you out of boredom, try suggesting a fun solo project, like asking him to draw you some pictures.
如果你的弟弟妹妹是因为无聊才缠着你,建议有趣的单人游戏,比如让他为你画一些画 。
STEP 4 Give in
4.屈服
If all your little bro or sis is really guilty of is wanting to play with you, give in once in a while. It will mean more than you think.
如果你的弟弟或妹妹仅仅是想让你和他一起玩,偶尔可以屈服一次 。这样做的意义或许超乎你的想象 。
STEP 5 Involve your parents
5.让父母介入
When all else fails, get help from mom or dad. Don't tattle—just ask for a suggestion on how to get the little twerp out of your hair for a while.
如果所有方法都失败,向父母求助 。不要饶舌,直接征求建议,怎样暂时把这个恼人的小家伙支开 。
From 1986 to 2006, the number of American families with only one child doubled.
从1986年到2006年,美国独生子女家庭的数量翻倍 。