怎样结交新朋友 维系老朋友(视频+文本+字幕)
日期:2015-03-12 09:03

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It's a scientific fact that having lots of friends helps keep you healthy. Here's how to add to your social circle.
科学证据表明,拥有很多朋友可以帮你保持健康0eA*L-B9Hem4jOE。下面是拓宽社交圈的一些方法9%haWkF;0AVM)h6,w

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You Will Need
你需要

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A place to meet people
认识新朋友的地方

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Some leisure time
一些娱乐事件

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And a giving nature
乐于付出的性格

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Steps
步骤

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STEP 1 Join a group
1.加入团体

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Join a group that interests you. You could work on a political campaign, sign up for a class, do volunteer work, or become a member of a club like a hiking group.
加入一个你感兴趣的团体&;An6,Bs2V|Gs6q。你可以致力于政治活动,报名参加兴趣班,做志愿者工作,或者成为某个俱乐部会员,比如远足f4%V2+cWG2-L1q8&

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STEP 2 Make the first move
2.迈出第一步

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Don’t be afraid to make the first move. Keep it simple, like inviting the person to grab a cup of coffee with you.
不要害怕迈出第一步HatFLVHnS5PXu。简单一点,邀请他们和你一起去喝杯咖啡+y.Oz+~cz!82

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In the beginning, don’t call or email your new acquaintance more than he or she does you. You want to be a pal, not a pain.
最初,打电话或发邮件给新结识的朋友的次数不要超过对方联系你的次数x9PVQZ6cq~TNzYjc9y。你想要和他们成为伙伴,而不是成为讨厌的人HyT;rA0~ig

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STEP 3 Be interested
3.感兴趣

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Focus on being interested, rather than being interesting. Research shows that when people are allowed to talk mostly about themselves, they give high ratings to their conversation partner!
集中注意力对某件事感兴趣,而不是自己变得有趣1O[PqGuvSVcspL7IYf。调查显示,当人们被允许总是谈论自己时,他们会对谈话对象评价更高%WvDTW-#Dc.kcOa@=Rdq

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STEP 4 Do a favor
4.帮忙

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Listen with an ear toward what you can do for the person you’d like to befriend. Doing someone a favor—without being asked—will fast-track the friendship.
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Don’t be afraid to reach out to old friends who have faded from your life. Sometimes a renewed friendship is the most rewarding of all.
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STEP 5 Throw a party
5.举办聚会

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Throw a party that includes all your friends, old and new, and encourage them to bring friends. As a wise man once said: make new friends, but keep the old—one is silver and the other’s gold.
举办一个聚会,邀请所有朋友参加,无论是老朋友还是新朋友,鼓励他们带朋友前来^k6rM@,WAm.z)b_aAA0D。一位智者曾经说过:结识新朋友,不忘老朋友——新朋友是银,老朋友是金3gXK,!yJ*vu8AWTiUw

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According to a British study, the average person will make and lose 363 friends in a lifetime and end up with 33—six of whom could be described as 'best friends.'
根据英国一项调查,一个人一生中平均会结交和失去363个朋友,最终只剩下33个朋友——其中6个可以称得上“最好的朋友”|v9&G1;;A8Ai0R|UQ
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