(单词翻译:单击)
Can't get a word in? Deal with people who dominate conversations and join in on the talk.
一句话都插不进去?以正确的方法与喜欢主导对话的人打交道,成功地加入对话。
You Will Need
你需要
Questions
问题
Acknowledgment
承认
Communication skills
沟通技巧
Determination
决心
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Ask questions
1.问问题
Ask specific and direct questions to make it hard for verbal people to take the conversation into another direction, and take control.
问一些具体而直接的问题,让说个不停的人难以将对话的方向转移,掌控对话内容。
STEP 2 Acknowledge
2.承认
Acknowledge the conversation stealer by restating what they said and then invite others to respond.
认可对方,重复他们所说的内容,然后邀请其他人作出回应。
STEP 3 Ask others
3.问其他人问题
Mention another person's name other than the dominator and ask that person a question.
提及除了主导对话的人之外另外一个人的名字,问对方一个问题。
STEP 4 Interrupt
4.打断
Interrupt the conversation dominator and encourage others to share their opinions.
打断主导谈话的人,鼓励他人分享意见。
Gently and politely interrupt the conversation dominator.
温和有礼地打断主导对话的人。
STEP 5 Move on
5.继续
State that you have heard their point but it is now time to move on.
表明自己已经了解他们的观点了,但是现在是时候讨论其他问题了。
STEP 6 Speak privately
6.私下谈话
If all else fails, speak to the dominant speaker privately and share your concerns.
如果以上方法都无效,私下与主导对话的人聊一下,表达你的忧虑。
Fifty-five percent of communication is expressed through body language and only 7 percent is verbal.
55%的对话都是通过身体语言来表达的,只有7%是通过口头表达的。
