六招搞定喜欢主导谈话的话痨(视频+文本+字幕)
日期:2014-11-02 07:37

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Can't get a word in? Deal with people who dominate conversations and join in on the talk.
一句话都插不进去?以正确的方法与喜欢主导对话的人打交道,成功地加入对话2ApN32-tdoMHKTTd~^

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You Will Need
你需要

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Questions
问题

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Acknowledgment
承认

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Communication skills
沟通技巧

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Determination
决心

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Steps
步骤

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STEP 1 Ask questions
1.问问题

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Ask specific and direct questions to make it hard for verbal people to take the conversation into another direction, and take control.
问一些具体而直接的问题,让说个不停的人难以将对话的方向转移,掌控对话内容)G*rUbp!&9eN0

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STEP 2 Acknowledge
2.承认

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Acknowledge the conversation stealer by restating what they said and then invite others to respond.
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STEP 3 Ask others
3.问其他人问题

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Mention another person's name other than the dominator and ask that person a question.
提及除了主导对话的人之外另外一个人的名字,问对方一个问题_Q^kr;K0#Sow@+oFLieM

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STEP 4 Interrupt
4.打断

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Interrupt the conversation dominator and encourage others to share their opinions.
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Gently and politely interrupt the conversation dominator.
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STEP 5 Move on
5.继续

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State that you have heard their point but it is now time to move on.
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STEP 6 Speak privately
6.私下谈话

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If all else fails, speak to the dominant speaker privately and share your concerns.
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Fifty-five percent of communication is expressed through body language and only 7 percent is verbal.
55%的对话都是通过身体语言来表达的,只有7%是通过口头表达的.(sHd(L&T7FQ

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重点单词
  • verbaladj. 动词的,口头的,用言辞的,用文字的 n. 动名
  • interruptv. 打断,打扰,中止,中断 n. [计算机]中断
  • controln. 克制,控制,管制,操作装置 vt. 控制,掌管,支
  • communicationn. 沟通,交流,通讯,传达,通信
  • respondv. 回答,答复,反应,反响,响应 n. [建]壁
  • encouragevt. 鼓励,促进,支持
  • acknowledgmentn. 承认,承认书,感谢 =acknowledgemen
  • dominatev. 支配,占优势,俯视
  • dominantadj. 占优势的,主导的,显性的 n. 主宰者
  • determinationn. (正式)决定,规定,决心,测定,定位