(单词翻译:单击)
Can't get a word in? Deal with people who dominate conversations and join in on the talk.
一句话都插不进去?以正确的方法与喜欢主导对话的人打交道,成功地加入对话 。
You Will Need
你需要
Questions
问题
Acknowledgment
承认
Communication skills
沟通技巧
Determination
决心
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Ask questions
1.问问题
Ask specific and direct questions to make it hard for verbal people to take the conversation into another direction, and take control.
问一些具体而直接的问题,让说个不停的人难以将对话的方向转移,掌控对话内容 。
STEP 2 Acknowledge
2.承认
Acknowledge the conversation stealer by restating what they said and then invite others to respond.
认可对方,重复他们所说的内容,然后邀请其他人作出回应 。
STEP 3 Ask others
3.问其他人问题
Mention another person's name other than the dominator and ask that person a question.
提及除了主导对话的人之外另外一个人的名字,问对方一个问题 。
STEP 4 Interrupt
4.打断
Interrupt the conversation dominator and encourage others to share their opinions.
打断主导谈话的人,鼓励他人分享意见 。
Gently and politely interrupt the conversation dominator.
温和有礼地打断主导对话的人 。
STEP 5 Move on
5.继续
State that you have heard their point but it is now time to move on.
表明自己已经了解他们的观点了,但是现在是时候讨论其他问题了 。
STEP 6 Speak privately
6.私下谈话
If all else fails, speak to the dominant speaker privately and share your concerns.
如果以上方法都无效,私下与主导对话的人聊一下,表达你的忧虑 。
Fifty-five percent of communication is expressed through body language and only 7 percent is verbal.
55%的对话都是通过身体语言来表达的,只有7%是通过口头表达的 。