(单词翻译:单击)
Taking criticism requires having high self-esteem. Keep your head up with these positive practices.
接受批评需要较强的自尊心 。采纳下面这些积极的举动,骄傲地昂起头 。
You Will Need
你需要
A positive attitude
积极的态度
Listening skills
倾听技巧
Questions
问题
Goals
目标
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Listen
1.倾听
Listen patiently to the person who is criticizing you, take mental notes, and try to hold in your emotions.
耐心听批评你的人说话,做一些精神笔记,尽量控制情绪 。
STEP 2 Ask questions
2.问问题
Ask the critic to explain exactly what they expect from you.
问一下对方他们希望你怎么做 。
STEP 3 Reflect on conversation
3.反思对话
Reflect on your conversation and look at criticism as a way to improve yourself. Welcome criticism and learn from your mistakes.
反思你们的对话,把批评视为提高自己的方式 。欢迎别人的批评,从你的错误中吸取教训 。
Forgive yourself for mistakes, and don't focus on your weaknesses. You're only human.
原谅自己的错误,不要总是关注自己的弱点 。你也是人,人都会犯错 。
STEP 4 Create goals
4.设立目标
Create goals for yourself. Achieving goals improves your self-esteem and helps you take criticism better.
为自己设立目标 。完成目标可以提高自尊心,帮助你更好地接受批评 。
STEP 5 Welcome failure
5.欢迎失败
Welcome failure instead of fearing it. Turn it into a learning experience and keep trying if you fail.
欢迎失败,而不是害怕失败 。把失败转化为一次经验教训,屡败屡战 。
STEP 6 Focus on strengths
6.集中关注长处
Focus on your strengths and past successes. Be proud of yourself and celebrate your accomplishments.
集中在你的长处和过去的成功上 。为自己感到自豪,庆祝你的成就 。
STEP 7 Laugh
7.自嘲
Laugh at yourself. Share your experiences with friends and family and make light of them.
自嘲一下 。跟朋友和家人分享你的经历,轻描淡写一笔带过 。
Written in 1709, Alexander Pope's first major poem, "An Essay on Criticism," gave us the immortal line, "To err is humane; to forgive,divine."
亚历山大·蒲柏1709年著作的第一部重要作品《批评论》为我们呈现了不朽的篇章,“失误人皆有之,而宽恕乃圣贤之举 。”