(单词翻译:单击)
Taking criticism requires having high self-esteem. Keep your head up with these positive practices.
接受批评需要较强的自尊心。采纳下面这些积极的举动,骄傲地昂起头。
You Will Need
你需要
A positive attitude
积极的态度
Listening skills
倾听技巧
Questions
问题
Goals
目标
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Listen
1.倾听
Listen patiently to the person who is criticizing you, take mental notes, and try to hold in your emotions.
耐心听批评你的人说话,做一些精神笔记,尽量控制情绪。
STEP 2 Ask questions
2.问问题
Ask the critic to explain exactly what they expect from you.
问一下对方他们希望你怎么做。
STEP 3 Reflect on conversation
3.反思对话
Reflect on your conversation and look at criticism as a way to improve yourself. Welcome criticism and learn from your mistakes.
反思你们的对话,把批评视为提高自己的方式。欢迎别人的批评,从你的错误中吸取教训。
Forgive yourself for mistakes, and don't focus on your weaknesses. You're only human.
原谅自己的错误,不要总是关注自己的弱点。你也是人,人都会犯错。
STEP 4 Create goals
4.设立目标
Create goals for yourself. Achieving goals improves your self-esteem and helps you take criticism better.
为自己设立目标。完成目标可以提高自尊心,帮助你更好地接受批评。
STEP 5 Welcome failure
5.欢迎失败
Welcome failure instead of fearing it. Turn it into a learning experience and keep trying if you fail.
欢迎失败,而不是害怕失败。把失败转化为一次经验教训,屡败屡战。
STEP 6 Focus on strengths
6.集中关注长处
Focus on your strengths and past successes. Be proud of yourself and celebrate your accomplishments.
集中在你的长处和过去的成功上。为自己感到自豪,庆祝你的成就。
STEP 7 Laugh
7.自嘲
Laugh at yourself. Share your experiences with friends and family and make light of them.
自嘲一下。跟朋友和家人分享你的经历,轻描淡写一笔带过。
Written in 1709, Alexander Pope's first major poem, "An Essay on Criticism," gave us the immortal line, "To err is humane; to forgive,divine."
亚历山大·蒲柏1709年著作的第一部重要作品《批评论》为我们呈现了不朽的篇章,“失误人皆有之,而宽恕乃圣贤之举。”
