锻炼强大的内心 欣然接受批评(视频+文本+字幕)
日期:2015-02-23 09:43

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Taking criticism requires having high self-esteem. Keep your head up with these positive practices.
接受批评需要较强的自尊心7sqzqGBeEfm。采纳下面这些积极的举动,骄傲地昂起头Q8U^;C!80J_R_qjA7I

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You Will Need
你需要

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A positive attitude
积极的态度

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Listening skills
倾听技巧

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Questions
问题

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Goals
目标

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Steps
步骤

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STEP 1 Listen
1.倾听

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Listen patiently to the person who is criticizing you, take mental notes, and try to hold in your emotions.
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STEP 2 Ask questions
2.问问题

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Ask the critic to explain exactly what they expect from you.
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STEP 3 Reflect on conversation
3.反思对话

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Reflect on your conversation and look at criticism as a way to improve yourself. Welcome criticism and learn from your mistakes.
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Forgive yourself for mistakes, and don't focus on your weaknesses. You're only human.
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STEP 4 Create goals
4.设立目标

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Create goals for yourself. Achieving goals improves your self-esteem and helps you take criticism better.
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STEP 5 Welcome failure
5.欢迎失败

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Welcome failure instead of fearing it. Turn it into a learning experience and keep trying if you fail.
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STEP 6 Focus on strengths
6.集中关注长处

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Focus on your strengths and past successes. Be proud of yourself and celebrate your accomplishments.
集中在你的长处和过去的成功上pQis0L|;FA。为自己感到自豪,庆祝你的成就X(M)yu@823uv,qm5++

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STEP 7 Laugh
7.自嘲

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Laugh at yourself. Share your experiences with friends and family and make light of them.
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Written in 1709, Alexander Pope's first major poem, "An Essay on Criticism," gave us the immortal line, "To err is humane; to forgive,divine."
亚历山大·蒲柏1709年著作的第一部重要作品《批评论》为我们呈现了不朽的篇章,“失误人皆有之,而宽恕乃圣贤之举9f-NEY]t!()X_t!u。”

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重点单词
  • mentaladj. 精神的,脑力的,精神错乱的 n. 精神病患者
  • divineadj. 神的,神圣的 vt. 推断 vi. 预言,理解
  • conversationn. 会话,谈话
  • criticn. 批评家,评论家
  • reflectv. 反映,反射,归咎
  • celebratev. 庆祝,庆贺,颂扬
  • errv. 犯错,做错 v. 偏离,入歧途