(单词翻译:单击)
Don't be a wallflower. Score some pals with these tips.
不要做局外人。根据下面的建议，为自己赢得一些朋友。
You Will Need
你需要
Interesting comment
有趣的评论
Friendly body language
友好的身体语言
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Look for topics
1.寻找话题
Before you join the crowd, find something interesting to comment on. It could be something general, like a recent headline, or something related to the event you're attending.
加入人群之前，寻找一些有趣的话题来评论。可以是很大众的东西，比如最近的头条新闻，或者与你们参加的活动有关的话题。
STEP 2 Sow seeds of conversation
2.播下对话的种子
Notice where people are congregating and join a group. At a pause in the conversation, bring up the comment you thought of earlier. After exchanging a few words, excuse yourself and repeat the process, making the same comment to a few other groups. Make sure to keep track of who you've talked to.
注意一下人们在关注什么话题，加入一个小组。当他们的对话暂停的时候，提出你之前想好的评论。交换一些看法后，找借口走开，重复之前的过程，与几个其他的小团体交换同样的评论。一定要记住你都跟哪些人说过话。
STEP 3 Settle on a conversation
3.固定下来
After talking with several different groups, settle in to one conversation. Ask an open-ended question, comment on something in their response, and establish a natural flow of conversation.
和几个不同的小组对话之后，固定加入一场对话。问一些可以自由回答的问题，对某些事情发表评论，确保对话自然流畅。
When you show genuine interest in someone, they perceive you as interesting.
当你对某人表现出真诚的兴趣时，他们会认为你很有趣。
STEP 4 Use body language
4.使用身体语言
Use body language to make people feel comfortable. Smile to show interest, keep your shoulders back to give the impression of self-confidence, and use eye contact to build trust.
使用身体语言，让人们感觉舒服。微笑着表达兴趣，肩膀向后挺，给人你很自信的印象，保持眼神交流，建立信任。
STEP 5 Invite others in
5.邀请他人加入
When people who you spoke with earlier walk by, include them in the conversation by telling them what you're talking about and asking their opinion. The people you talked to in the beginning are more likely to join your conversation because you've already established a rapport with them. Most people don't like talking to complete strangers.
当此前跟你说过话的人走过时，邀请他们加入对话，告诉他你们正在讨论什么，询问一下对方的看法。你最初谈过话的人更有可能加入你们的对话，因为你已经和他建立了融洽的关系。大部分人不喜欢和完全陌生的人说话。
STEP 6 Let the conversation go
6.让对话持续
Let the conversation take on a life of its own. Congratulations! You're now the social butterfly you always knew you were.
让对话保持流畅。祝贺你！你现在成了成功的交际花！
According to a study, young people who are a little shy are less stressed than their extroverted peers.
根据一项研究，有点害羞的年轻人比外向的同龄人压力更小。
