18. Be the best parent you can be. We make all parenting decisions together. We are intentional about our parenting. Your spouse’s love and respect for you will grow when he or she sees you loving and parenting to the best of your ability.
做你能做的最好的父母，我们作一起抚养的决定te,~vy#5*+C!)。我们一起用心抚养o2wOBsa;_4gyb.。伴侣的爱和尊重你的心将增强当当他或她看到你尽最大能力去爱和抚养jKVrE~PXLyKb)。
19. Give your spouse freedom. We give each other the freedom to do things that give us pleasure independently. Of course, we don’t take advantage of it, but giving your spouse the opportunity to do the things he or she enjoys is important.
给你的伴侣自由，我们给彼此的自由独立做事,给我们快乐izQ5DhCH!No。当然,我们不滥用它,但是给你的配偶机会做他或她喜欢的事情是很重要的11cDoG]39a11.3。
20. Stay out of debt. Financial stress is the number one cause of divorce. Sit down together and create a budget that you will both stay committed to and don’t allow yourselves to justify spending more money than you make.
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21. Continue growing as people. We are both committed to learning, growing and achieving our personal best. This includes growing as a spouse, parent and individual. As one of us gets better, it helps the other person get better, just as iron sharpens iron.
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22. Love your spouse according to his or love language. Read Joy’s post titled, Loving People the Way They Need to be Loved to learn more about the significance of love languages.This is also available as a podcast you can listen to. So just go to littlethingsmatter.com, and in the searching bar type in Loving People the Way They Need to be Loved to learn more about the significance of learning love languages.
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