3. NEVER say the word divorce. If you are committed to building a long-term healthy marriage, make a vow to each other that you will never say the word divorce or anything else that would leave the other person to believe you are not 100% committed to your marriage.
永远不要说“离婚”这个词X3Pja4(n0wy+T。如果你致力于构建一个长期健康的婚姻,让彼此的誓言,你将永远不会说离婚这个词或者会让对方相信你不是100%致力于你的婚姻的其他什么东西OK+^0jCD9x2a8MPbG#Lo。
The first time we got married we were married for a short period of time. Three months.And what happened one day is we got into a fight.One of us said the word divorce and the other said"Okay,great."And before we know we have signed paperwork and we were diroced. So,just never bring it up.It's just something you don't want to discuss.
我们第一次的婚姻维持了很短时间，只有三个月mi@bQVTr+.xxDdX,Fc。当时是因为我们吵架了，然后我们其中的一个说要离婚，另外一个说“好啊，太好了”a[kA4cnD#D#w!qvd7I。我们还没有反应过来离婚协议书已经签完了，我们离婚了vq*9Qrm[X+C|。所以，不要说离婚这个词ySoec.^-z1Z。它不是人们喜欢讨论的话题qdC]W4&t17gl_S。
4. Don’t argue over petty things. When we first got married we argued over every little ridiculous thing. It made our lives miserable. We then made the decision that we would no longer argue about meaningless things. Now when one of us bring up an issue, we both know it's a serious issue and we both take it seriously.
不要争论琐碎的事情SSkWnftJxAn,。当我们第一次结婚我们认为每一个荒谬的事情Ldr25lqNyqc_#MJ。它使我们的生活悲惨+G(#TPr(+Z-OX)IgT]。然后,我们决定,我们将不再争论毫无意义的事情5tY)*%ZwU]5BGB&;!j6X。现在,当我们提出一个问题,对方就重视它w!]UMho%znT-v。
5. Make a weekly date a priority. This is HUGE! Dress up, get out of the house and enjoy a special time together. During these times together show an interest in the things that are important to each other and avoid talking about subjects that could create tension.
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6. Find at least one 30-minute block of time to spend together each day. It could be in the morning before work or in the evening. During this designated time, discuss what’s going on in each of your lives. We all have a lot going on, but if your marriage is a priority, spending time together should take precedence over all other activities.And when our children were young,we would take 30 minutes before dinner.Todd and I unintterupted by our small children.They would know this is our time to catch up for the day.We made that our priority.
挤出一天至少一个30分钟的时间在一起@KOh2ZZUe=#Y7;,d。可能是在工作前的早上或晚上s5g4.py~XhiQTbwaS。在指定的时间,讨论各自生活发生了什么YAz@BY_ebaHN,hBgk。我们都有很多,但是如果优先考虑你的婚姻,花时间在一起应该优先于所有其他活动4kGjj7~Fo9Q7F%w(cZ。我们孩子还小的时候，我们会在晚饭前花30分钟做这件事n!fR~RSgHD,hl。托德和我不会受到小孩子们的打扰=[y0o]JnjUVc.o8P。他们知道这是我们的私人时间，使我们首要的事pnBq7^3qGTAM^IB)mn。