These two examples may seem obvious, but remember that compliments come in many forms. Whatever the situation, there is a proper way to acknowledge praise, commendation, or admiration.
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Make eye contact. Acknowledging a compliment is a perfect time to connect with someone. Look the person in the eye when you respond. Doing so communicates sincerity and self-confidence.
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Say, “Thank you.” A sincere, unhurried ‘thank you’ along with a smile and eye contact is more often than not all that is necessary.
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Don’t explain anything. If you feel moved, you can follow your ‘thank you’ with something positive. Doing so communicates desirable character traits such as friendliness and positivity. Caution: If you can’t keep it brief and will be tempted to explain or rationalize your action or accomplishment, leave it at a simple ‘thank you.’
Here’s how it might sound if Mary and Bill put this advice into practice:
不要做任何解释nRRaRDCPBxP0OH4&|。如果你被感动到了，你要跟随着你的内心去做一些积极向上的事F-QE(]b@YCy7。这样的交流有友善和积极的特征Ms6S=mr6uP=H。警告：如果你不能保持简单的解释或理顺你的行动和成就,就留下简单的一句话“谢谢你xXMnRHztAVZ。”如果迈瑞和比尔把建议付诸行动，听起来会是这样的：
“Have you lost weight, Mary? You look terrific!”
“你在减肥吗?迈瑞，你看起来很好!”
Thanks, Barb. I feel great, too.
“I’m really happy with the way you handled yourself on that call, Bill.”
谢谢，巴布，我也感觉很好@0MQ_,m*a~K81zb4)B。“比尔，我对你这样的做法很满意HBK;;T-)^wRVzccW)H。”
Thank you, Jim. I appreciate the feedback.
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Quite a difference, wouldn’t you say? My challenge for you today is three-fold:
完全不同的效果，你会说吗?我对你的挑战是这三个：
1. Listen for compliments given to others as you go about your business over the next week. How many times do you hear people rejecting or ignoring a compliment they receive?
2. Give more compliments than you normally would. Notice the responses people give.
3. Finally, put today’s advice into practice the very next time you receive a compliment.
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Acknowledging a compliment paid is a simple, yet very effective way to make a positive impression and build a favorable reputation.
承认赞美是一种简单的支付，这是一种有效的途径给人留下美好的印象并建立一个好的声望7Bh3o@WF^k%0ii。