Is Your Word Really Your Bond?
你的言行一致吗?
As many of you know,the summon focus of every post I write and podcast I deliver on the Little Things Matter blog is about helping you become the person you need to be, to achieve your goals and live the life you desire.
你大家所知，我所写的每一条帖子及我在Little Things Matter博客上发的每一篇博文的目的是帮助大家成为你们想要变成的自己，帮助大家达成目标，过上自己想过的生活kahXG,ccy&z=DlS2io。
The stories told, daily lessons posted, and life experiences shared are all about helping you grow in every area of your personal and professional life.
这些故事告诉我们日常课程和生活经验都可以使人在生活和工作中的各个领域都成长起来ZJT+rpbE;qC。
In today’s lesson, I want to bring attention to one of the core elements of your character—being a person of your word. There are very few subjects more important than your personal character. Being known as a person who honors your word is as simple as doing what you said you would do when you said you would do it.
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In short, honoring your word plays a powerful role in how you are viewed by others. In the longer-term, it also plays a large part in how you view yourself. And, quite frankly, it dictates whether you are a person who is respected and accepted or disrespected and scorned.
总之，尊重自己的言语在别人怎么看待你方面起了重要的作用gcgQ1;c1~u.0u。长期来看，言语也在你怎么看待自己方面起了很重要的作用zOX^DHy[Vn3@CrbSo。坦率的说，其也表明了你是否被人尊重、认可或者是不尊重、被嘲讽的人Mh2__zr%I5au。
It’s ironic that although nearly everyone will admit to valuing the importance of keeping your word, fewer and fewer people actually do it. As a result, when I see people who consistently live up to their commitments, my respect for them soars.
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While honoring your word does include big things like marriage and business agreements, it also includes the little things you say you will do—such as calling when you said you would, remembering to let your neighbor’s pet in as you promised, and getting the report turned in on time.
然而，说话算话不但包括像婚姻合同和商业合同这样的大事，还包括你要做到的一些小事--比如，别人叫你做的事情，或者因为你承诺过同意你的邻居养宠物，还有把成绩单及时上交..UcDEC15qKr。
Just as there are benefits to doing what you say you will, there are repercussions when you don’t. When we allow ourselves to back out of our commitments, it usually results in guilt and time wasted in our attempt to avoid those we’ve let down. I’ve learned it takes more time and emotional energy to circumvent or repair a damaged relationship when we’ve shirked a commitment than it does to keep it!
因为言行一致有很多好处，言行不一致时会带来麻烦,zB1H[dv-,。当我们言行不一时，我们常常会心里内疚而且会浪费那些我们辜负的人的时间uusS9&jwX8iV。我知道的是，当我们逃避而不是面对那些辜负的人时，会绕道而走或者是修复一段破裂的关系要花更多的时间和精力8M&9cx7x&B1a.。