Not having much luck in the romance department? Try dating like a man -- it may be just the jolt your love life needs.
在浪漫的恋情方面运气不足？尝试像男人一样约会——或许这正是你的爱情生活所需要作出的改变GvF;ZF52E3。

You Will Need
你需要

Courage
勇气

Full playing field
充分发挥的余地

Relaxed attitude
放松的态度

Patience
耐心

Steps
步骤

STEP 1 Make the first move
1.主动迈出第一步

Don't wait for a man you're interested in to approach you -- strike up a conversation with him. Women who make the first move have up to a 90 percent success rate.
不要等待你感兴趣的男子接近你——发起对话fHTy5,dw_5[vA8~bE^。采取主动的女性成功的几率高达90%Ksh7p|Lt,7v!l+BU;z*。

STEP 2 Play the field
2.多方面交往

Play the field, even if you've met someone you really like. To date like a man, you must operate on the assumption that there might be someone even better out there -- at least until you've had enough time to know for sure that there isn't.
多结交几个人，即使你遇到了真正喜欢的人r]kWssDD*pqyRH。像男人一样约会，你必须以还有人比对方更好为前提——至少直到你有足够的时间了解没有人比他更好为止;E7rDcXkyQW9Nb=。

STEP 3 Chill
3.冷静

Chill out! Don't view every person you date as a potential life partner. Focus on having fun, not finding true love.
冷静一点D&igeLUSy.,&RGrP1x|D。不要把每个约会对象视为潜在的生活伴侣TY;qB7-N2_7(bn3W。集中在好玩，而不是寻找真爱方面Va;U;PgokhWhVl]Ajh]p。

STEP 4 Don't get too invested
4.不要太投入

Don't invest too much of yourself early in a relationship. Save the personal sacrifices and grand gestures for when he's earned them.
恋爱之初不要太投入Fr5Lff)i]*+。个人牺牲和较大的动作留到你赢得他的心之后%O.A^oU31_。

Don't introduce a guy to your family until he's taken you to meet his.
在他带你见家人之前，不要把他介绍给你的家人m#fG28&dMdhesw4Ko[。

STEP 5 Keep your options open
5.留出选择的余地

Keep your options open. Resist making plans with a man too far in advance, and don't try to book him for holidays or pin him down to vacations too early in the romance.
给自己留有选择的余地qV9qb+P&|QYV+I]。不要提前太早和一名男子制定计划，不要试图太早预订和他一起过假期J,lWLz-Z@r#sPU。

STEP 6 Don't settle down too soon
6.不要太早安定下来

Don't settle down until you have the education and experience to take care of yourself. Men often like to wait until their career is established and they're financially stable before they get serious with someone, and that's a good plan for women, too.
不要太早安定下来，直到你接受了足够的教育，有照顾自己的经验|v|nH[+t*J9ICQA_gye。男性通常喜欢等到事业有成，经济状况稳定的时候才会认真对待一个人.N*ZveIY%iM~OJ5bz;Fm。对女性来说，这也是比较好的计划O^1km_BU8tUVgz8。

40 percent of men date multiple women simultaneously, according to one poll. More than half of those men juggle at least 6 women.
根据一项民意调查，40%的男性同时和几名女性约会;&fgy=%;1|x;CU。其中超过一半的人同时穿梭在至少6位女性中间7GEq@x@CFbdgsMn。
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