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Being busted for re-gifting is like getting nabbed by the IRS—you’re not sorry you did it, you’re just sorry you got caught. Don’t let that happen.
转送礼物失败就像被警察抓到——你不后悔曾经这样做,而是后悔被抓了现行 。不要让这种情况发生 。
You Will Need
你需要
Presents to re-gift
要转送的礼物
A notebook to record gifts you've received
笔记本,用来记录自己收到的礼物
Steps
步骤
STEP 1 Keep track
1.追踪
Keep careful track of who gave you what—otherwise you might end up re-gifting to the person who gave you the present in the first place.Also note everyone who saw you receive the gift and scratch them off the potential recipient list.
小心记录谁送了你什么礼物——否则可能出现把礼物物归原主的尴尬局面 。还要记录下有哪些人看到你收到这份礼物,把他们从接收者的名单上去除 。
STEP 2 Be discerning
2.眼光敏锐
Decide what past gifts can be recycled. If a store-brand item is very old, the person might try to return it and discover it has been stocked for years.
决定哪些过去的礼物可以回收利用 。如果商场标签破旧了,对方可能会试图退还,从而发现这件物品已经被存放了几年 。
There’s a difference between a recycled gift and a hand-me-down. Sorry, but even if you’ve only used it or worn it once, it’s not suitable for re-gifting.
回收礼品和半新的物品之间是有区别的 。对不起,即使你只用过或穿过一次,也不适合转送 。
STEP 3 Beware gift cards
3.注意礼品卡
Carefully examine each item for a gift card. Needless to say, if the person opens his present and finds a note addressed to you, the jig is up.
小心检查每件物品的礼品卡 。不需多说,如果对方拆开礼物时发现一张送给你的便条,那就露馅了 。
STEP 4 Consider appropriateness
4.考虑是否合适
Consider carefully whether the re-gift is appropriate. If it's clearly out of whack with the re-giftee's style and interests, they're apt to guess it was not originally chosen with them in mind.
认真考虑想要转送的礼物是否合适 。如果完全不符合对方的风格或兴趣,他们就会猜测这份礼物本身就不是特意为他们选择的 。
Some gifts might be so inappropriate or atrocious that they’d work as gag gifts. Pass them along, have a laugh, and let the new recipient figure out what to do with them.
一些礼物可能特别不合适,成为搞笑的礼物 。送给他们,让新的礼物接收者自己决定怎么办 。
STEP 5 Keep distance between source and re-giftee
5.原来送你礼物的人和新的接收者之间保持距离
Make sure there are several degrees of separation between the person who gave you the gift and the new recipient. You don't want the gift turning up in a place the re-giftee frequents.
确保原本送你礼物的人之间和新的礼物接收者之间保持一定的距离 。你肯定不想这份礼物经常出现在原本送你礼物的人面前 。
STEP 6 Re-gift again!
6.再次重新赠送
If you sense the person doesn’t like the gift, offer to return it before they can begin asking about receipts and return policies. Then go back to your re-gift closet for another treasure.
如果你感到对方并不喜欢这件礼物,在他们向你索要收据或询问退货条款之前主动提出让对方归还 。然后在你的橱柜中重新找一件礼物 。
In one survey, 77% of respondents admitted to re-gifting because the item was better suited for someone else, while 7% confessed they re-gifted because they did not like the recipient of the re-gift!
根据一份调查,77%的受调查者承认曾经转送礼物,因为他们觉得这份礼物更适合其他人,而7%的人承认他们转送礼物是因为他们不喜欢对方!