赢得好人缘的7大诀窍
日期:2010-03-29 10:04

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Being popular begins by being happy with who you are. Follow these steps, and people will be begging to be a part of your “in” crowd.

You Will Need

Smile
Listening skills
Empathy
Positive attitude
Enthusiasm (optional)

Step 1: Greet with a smile(笑脸迎人)
Greet everyone you see with a warm smile. Chances are they will smile back.

Step 2: Initiate conversations(主动搭话)
Initiate conversations. Ask people about events in their life.

Be enthusiastic when you talk to people to let them know you are excited to talk to them.

Step 3: Listen(仔细聆听)
Give people your undivided attention when they are talking to you.

Step 4: Respond with empathy(寻找共鸣)
Respond to people with empathy. Be encouraging and supportive.

If someone is telling you a story about something that made them angry, get angry with them.

Step 5: Be positive(积极乐观)
Be positive. Do not talk negatively about other people.

Step 6: Help others(乐于助人)
Volunteer your time for others in need. It could be to help someone move, to paint a room, or to help raise money for a charity.

Step 7: Play a sport or hobby(培养兴趣或多多运动)
Play a sport or begin a hobby of interest and have fun.

Kristin Chenoweth performed the song “Popular” on the original Broadway soundtrack to the musical Wicked.

词汇讲解

【词汇讲解】

1.Empathy n. 移情作用,共鸣,执着投入

如:There is a strange empathy between the old lady and her grandson.
老妇人和她孙子间有种莫名其妙的心灵相通的感觉。

2.Initiate vt. 开始,创始,启蒙,介绍加入

如:Approve and initiate a project
项目立项

To initiate and conduct legal proceedings.
起诉提出和进行法律诉讼

3.supportive adj. 支持的,赞助的

如:A supportive tissue of plants, consisting of elongated, living cells with unevenly thickened walls.
厚角组织植物的一种支持组织,由延长的活细胞组成,细胞壁厚薄不均

The author dedicated her new book to her supportive family.
这位作家将她的新书献给支持她的家庭。

She has been very supportive during my illness.
我患病期间她帮了我很大忙。

4.soundtrack n. 声道,电影配乐

如:A device used to combine and adjust sounds from a variety of sources in order to create a final recorded audio product, such as the soundtrack of a movie.
混频器用来混合和调整不同来源的声音以创造出最终被录的音频产品的装置,如一部电影的音道


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重点单词
  • originaladj. 最初的,原始的,有独创性的,原版的 n. 原件
  • approvev. 批准,赞成,同意,称许
  • charityn. 慈善,慈善机关(团体), 仁慈,宽厚
  • empathyn. 移情作用,共鸣,执着投入
  • respondv. 回答,答复,反应,反响,响应 n. [建]壁
  • legaladj. 法律的,合法的,法定的
  • devicen. 装置,设计,策略,设备
  • wickedadj. 坏的,邪恶的,缺德的 adv. 极端地,非常地
  • dedicatedadj. 专注的,献身的,专用的
  • enthusiasmn. 热情,热心;热衷的事物