against the grain违背心愿、令人不满

Bad luck goes against the grain.

厄运总是令人讨厌的。

His coarse and rude ways went against the grain with me.

他那粗鲁无礼的态度不合乎我的性情。

sit well with被接受


The idea that the coach may leave the team doesn't sit well with his players

教练可能会离开，让队员们很难接受。

All this toughness does not sit well with everyone.

所有这种强硬的做法并非人人都能接受。

His plan is against the grain.It doesn't sit well with us

他的计划不太让人满意，我们大多数人都不能接受

歌曲：closer by jaheim