I got out of there and fast, because I realized, no matter how nice he was to me, and how intimate we were pretending to be, he was just not that into me and I wanted more.

我离开了那儿开始了节食，因为我意识到不管他对我有多好，我们假装有多么的亲密，他只是没那么喜欢我，而且我想要的更多。

IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE GREG

如果你不相信格雷格

Twenty out of the twenty men polled said, without hesitation (well, it was all done by e-mail, but they all seemed really sure about it) , that they have never been really into a woman who they didn't want to have sex with.

20个接受调查的男人一致毫不犹豫的说（调查通过邮件，但是他们看起来非常的肯定），他们从不和不喜欢的女人做爱。

One man wrote in, "What? ! Excuse me? ! And the point is? !"

一个男人写道，“什么？再说一遍？！这什么意思！”

What You Should Have Learned in This Chapter

你应在本章学到的

People tell you who they are all the time. When a man says he can't be monogamous, you should believe him.

人们一直在对你诠释自己。当一个男人说他不遵循一夫一妻制的时候，你应该相信他。

Companionship is wonderful, but companionship with sex is even better.

陪伴很棒，但是有性的陪伴更完美。

Call a spade a spade or, more fittingly, a friend a friend, and go find yourself a friend that can't keep his hands off you.

有话直说，更恰当的说法是，朋友就是朋友，去给自己找一个无法把手从你身上拿开的朋友吧。

Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.

失去的尊严会比找一个新男友更难找回，所以制定好优先等级吧。

If you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy.

如果你忍得住只是和一个人抱着度过日日夜夜，那不妨买只宠物。

There's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff.

会有人想跟你做爱的，美人儿。

Our Super-Good Really Helpful Excises

我们超级棒的真实有用的练习

Imagine that in your minds have a big flag. Now imagine color it in with a big crayon.

想象一下你脑海里有一面旗帜。想象自己用一支大蜡笔上色。

Now, you have a big red flag. Good, because that's what a man not wanting to have sex with you is.

现在你有一面红旗。很好，因为那就是一个不想跟你做爱的男人。

Now clear your head and go get yourself some good loving.

现在清空你的大脑，给自己找寻幸福的下一春吧。