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So it's just half of the equation and what these self-help books
所以这只是等式的一半，而这些自助书籍
and messages do is overpromise and under-deliver, which at times can be destructive. For example,
传达的讯息往往言过其实，效果甚微，甚至可能会造成毁灭性后果。比如
if everything is based on the law of attraction. I created everything that everything is up to me and also everything is my fault.
如果一切皆建立于吸引力法则上，我创造了一切，一切都因我而变，一切都是我的错
Even taking to the extreme, is a 3 years old girl responsible for being abused?
举个极端点的例子，如果3岁小女孩被虐待，那是她的责任吗
Is a 30 years old man responsible for being paralyzed as a result of an accident by a drunken driver?
30岁的男子被酒醉驾车的司机撞成瘫痪是他自己的责任吗
There are certain things that are out there
有些事情是我们无法控制的
and when we say that everything is up to us, everything is created by the law of attraction,
所以一切因我而变，一切都由吸引力法则决定

then it's a prescription maybe in the short term for inspiration and for belief and for wellbeing, but in the long term,
这种说法短期内可能能让你坚定信念，获得幸福感，但是长期来看
it's for frustration, for guilt, and for unhappiness.
只会让人感到挫败，内疚，不快乐
And also for less success because if I really believe that it's all about thinking, then this is going to be my mind set.
离成功越来越远，因为如果我真的相信一切都由思考决定，这种想法就会成为我的心态习惯
All I need to do is believe and then all the money will come to me.
只要有信心，钱就会滚滚而来
All the success in a relationship will come to me.
爱情就会降临于我
And that does away with the hard work, with the persistence, with the failure that is necessary,
这抹杀了勤奋工作……坚韧不拔以及失败的作用
part and parcel of a successful, happy, fulfilling, human life.
它们也是成功，幸福，完满人生的必要组成部分

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