Seducing a woman is an art, and most guys never even really take the first few steps that are needed to properly seduce a woman. If you are serious about seduction, and you want to be able to successfully get a woman in bed, then you need to start from square one. Otherwise, you could easily end up amongst the throngs of men that try to buy their way into a woman’s favor, or end up going around trying cheesy routines to try and manipulate a woman into sleeping with you.

勾搭美女是一门艺术，然而大多数的男人甚至从未真正采取色诱所需的适当手段来搭讪美女。如果你是真的想认真学习怎样成功的让美女自愿跟你爱爱，那么你需要从头开始。否则你将成功跻身于那些很努力地尝试投美女所好，或者那些使用自认为一流的技巧来骗美女上床却不甚成功的人群之中。

Don’t assume that seduction is just about sex, because it is NOT. If you make the mistake of assuming that it’s all about sex, I can almost guarantee you that you will NEVER be able to walk up to a woman and in only a short time be able to entice her into your bedroom.

不要以为色诱仅仅是为了爱爱，因为事实并不是这样的。如果你在这点上犯了错误，我几乎可以很肯定的保证你永远不能随意走向一个美女并在短时间内把她勾引进你的卧室。

Here are 5 shockingly simple tips to get her in YOUR bed:

好了，闲聊到此为止，接下来是五个最简单的色诱技巧：

1. You need to touch her on an emotional level before anything physical.

在任何身体接触之前提高她感情上的触动

Trying to just use physical attraction to get a woman into bed is going to be a tough one at best. Women are sexually attracted on an emotional level much more so than a physical one, so this can work out well, as long as you focus on touching on those emotions.

仅仅使用你的身体吸引力来色诱美女是最艰难的。美女们对于感情上的反应远比肉体上的反应来的强烈，所以只要你把她们注意力的焦点集中在感情上，这个技巧就能发挥很好的作用。

2. To seduce a woman, you need to possess confidence no matter what.

要想色诱美女你无论在哪一方面都要表现出强烈的自信

Let’s face the facts here. When it comes down to sex, women ARE the ones that are usually in control. You want to sleep with her and all she has to do is say NO, and your confidence and ego can crumble into little pieces. To really become successful in seduction, you need to be able to let the NO’s have little effect on your ego. Otherwise, you will just shy away with the first rejection.

让我们来面对现实吧。每当提到爱爱，美女们常常都是扮演控制者的角色。你想跟她爱爱，而她只要说一个不字就能把你的自信和自尊撕得支离破碎。要想成功的掌握色诱，你需要让这些拒绝对你的自尊产生最小的影响。否则，你将在第一次被拒绝之后再也爬不起来。

3. You have to do the dance.

你需要学会打太极（译者注：我的意思是不能太强硬，双方你来我往才是王道）

By this I mean, most of the time you are not going to be able to get her into your bed in 5 minutes. Sure, there might be an occasion where that happens, but usually you have to kind of woo her into your bedroom and that means that you have to go through the motions. Do not be impatient or try too hard, or else the only one that is going to be in your bed is…YOU!

我的意思是，大多数情况下你不太可能在五分钟之内就把美女弄到你的床上去。确实，这样的情况还是有可能发生的，但是通常情况下你需要的是把她骗进你的卧室，在这个阶段需要的只是走走过场。别不耐烦或者过分的努力去这么做，否则唯一一个进你卧室的人将是你自己！

4. You need to build a foundation of physical attraction and BUILD on it.

你需要建立一定的身体吸引力并逐渐加强它

I hope the first tip did not make you think that there has to be no physical attraction, because there does. The thing is, you need to be able to build on physical attraction in increasing amounts. She might think that you are cute, but that alone probably will not make her want to sleep with you. However, if you do little things along the way that trigger those sexual feelings in her, she just might not be able to keep her hands off of you.

我希望我的第一个技巧没让你错误的认为身体吸引力完全不重要。事实是这样的，你需要建立一个身体吸引力上的基础并逐步加强它的影响。她可能会觉得你很吸引人，但是只是这样还不足以让她愿意上你的床。但是，如果你能不断加强她对你身体上的感受，她很可能对你不能自拔。

5. You have to be respectful of her.

你必须得足够尊重她

If you want to be the kind of guy that women desire to sleep with, then you have to show them a little respect. I know some guys that can get a girl to go to bed with them once, but never a second time. Trust me, it’s much better to get the second and third time than to only get one chance with her.

如果你想成为美女们所渴望的男人，必要的尊重还是很需要的。我认识一些能让美女跟他们爱爱一次的男人，但是永远没有第二次。相信我，有第二第三次的爱爱永远比只有一次的好得多得多。