泰瑞·克鲁斯 -- 无畏家暴和PUA(3)
日期:2022-04-08 12:00

(单词翻译:单击)

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And I'm trying to tell you, I was a part of this. I was guilty.

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我想告诉你,我也参与了这件事p5JAXTiDL!MLsTZ。我是有罪的1J9H~NZ0(L

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I believe because I was a man, I was more valuable, and it was my way or the highway with my own family.

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我相信因为我是男人,所以我更有价值,要么听我的,要么滚_Sct,g+z+MRxez

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And I developed so many bad, bad things that I had to totally eradicate in my life.

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我发展了太多的坏东西,我必须在我的生活中完全根除Z!TE^U4+h%

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I had to go to rehab, to beat pornography addiction.

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我不得不去康复治疗,才能戒掉色情瘾;-vIunhGRfWLOQd

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There were other things in my life that I knew because of this masculinity issue, this pride issue that did not allow me to hear the truth. Totally.

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在我的生活中,还有其他的事情,因为这个男子汉气概的问题,这个骄傲的问题,让我完全听不到真相4sV48DXMoxQi

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And I'm going to tell you, man, you guys are young.

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我要告诉你,伙计,你们还年轻AZMvbaZyrl7H,RcO

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You guys are the future.

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你们就是未来ySd0WkNz*]*D0C-)5p1

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The way I came up, you know, as a kid, when I was young, it was like, hey man, nobody wanted to hear me.

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当我还是个孩子的时候,当我年轻的时候,没有人想听我说话5zGpF5ndh_.P

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They were like, just be quiet.

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他们就说,安静点cZnxsWkkKXt3Rj8;

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You don't know what you're talking about.

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你可能不知道你在说什么m2S#re*Os5Hr

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But I'm here to tell you that you do know.

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但我来这里是想告诉你,你确实知道9DAv[@9b4S)xUGQ@D

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I'm here to tell you that all the young people in here, you know the answer.

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我在这里告诉你们,在座的所有年轻人,你们都知道答案5FI*&WVB5~,vB8)]C~U

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And I'm here.

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我就在这里]Xi!a+n~V!Q~neO0

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And if you don't, the fact that you are here and the fact that you are asking questions, because my thing is I never ever want to be the guy that just brings a bunch of answers.

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如果你不知道你在这里的答案和你问的问题的答案,因为我永远不想成为那个只带来一大堆答案的人pL|7JsHQhy0,9T[^_R|

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I want to be the guy who brings more questions.

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我想成为那个能带来更多问题的人=WIXso1H_ayiVuolX^]

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Because through those questions that's where you're going to really figure out, figure out the best way.

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因为通过这些问题你才能真正弄清楚最好的方法k2_sU@eNzaAv*,9fm9Xf

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Because let me tell you, one day is one way and the other day is another way.

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因为一天是一种方式,另一天是另一种方式bx+GWekH7e@8

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Now I also want to bring up the Me Too thing.

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现在我也想谈谈“我也是”a@[pwqz&Vn%

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Because being a card-carrying member, ex member of the cult of masculinity, I was able to recognize where my lines got crossed.

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作为一名持证会员,前男子气概崇拜的成员,我能够意识到我的底线在哪D8_gnasV5)xj0=poXx

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There was the head of the Motion Picture department at my agency, WME, a guy named Adam Bennett came up to me in the middle of a party when I was with my wife.

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我的经纪公司WME的电影制片部主任亚当·班尼特在一个派对上走到我跟前,当时我和妻子在一起(gmdMMNyn[j8tr

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And this was two years ago, I was already successful, already done movies, already on Brooklyn Nine-Nine, already doing this stuff.

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这是两年前,我已经很成功了,已经拍了电影和《神烦警探》,也已经在做这些事情了JOa_pe!Wx[RXfvbKjr&w

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And he walks over to me and he gropes my genitals at a party.

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他走到我跟前,在一个派对上摸了摸我的xxxz.tX[M%j+%#I-W*0DKHu

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And I'm sitting here going, what in the world?

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我坐在这里想,这到底是这么回事?

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Now I pushed the guy back.

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我把他推开了kJNwa&Y;iTwi

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I'm like, what is happening?

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我在想,这是怎么回事?

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I don't even understand it.

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我甚至都不明白09P-sJZc8T

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Now, I ain't even met the guy.

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现在,我甚至都遇到过这家伙-@sFqXWLmq;xcWuuv!N

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I didn't even know the guy.

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我甚至都不认识这个人]W4^5MLhTk7O4y

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He worked at my agency, but I didn't know him.

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他在我的经纪公司工作,但我不认识他tb&-yc_^oOg

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But I'm like, what is this dude's problem?

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但我在想,这家伙到底有什么问题?

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So, he comes up to me and then I push him back.

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于是,他走到我跟前,然后我把他推了回去1;ny(.BU54llXGrsK

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He comes back to me again and does it again.

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他又回来找我,又一次摸了我B-_o(qB!c~wsAwqX%e

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I'm like, whoa, whoa. Now, now, now my first thing is to kill him.

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我就像……现在我的第一件事就是杀了他m)~pa34Ruvha*b3b1

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