读者文摘:今天如何感到更快乐(2)
日期:2021-01-10 09:56

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中英文本

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Increase social connections.

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增加社会联系tDAzvt]d+2!SFj)~*b

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Reconnecting with a friend can boost happiness, but so can a meaningful encounter with a stranger.

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重新与朋友获得联系可以增加幸福感,但与陌生人有意义的邂逅也能让你增加幸福感aqKZ(RvzJdwuG[%=le*y

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"One of the most complex things we can engage with is another person's mind,"

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本课程中提到的一位研究人员、加州大学伯克利分校助理教授朱莉安娜·施罗德说:

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says Juliana Schroeder, an assistant professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and one of the researchers cited in the course.

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“我们能接触到的最复杂的事情之一就是另一个人的思想(g~uzPan~5y。”

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Ian loves chatting with waiters, and I noticed him doing it even more after we learned about the benefits of such interactions.

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伊恩喜欢和服务员聊天,我们了解到这种互动的好处后,我注意到他更喜欢这么做了Od=mIv&W@g

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He beams afterward.

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他在这么做后会笑容满面T1e-f3tn]K4l

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Tim Bono, who teaches his own course on happiness at Washington University in St. Louis, offers this caveat:

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蒂姆·博诺在圣路易斯市华盛顿大学教授他的快乐课程,他告诫大家:

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Facebook friends don't count.

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脸书上的朋友不算数TwnzBVG7(Csx*e0Qvspw

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In fact, many studies have found that the more you use social media, the less happy you are.

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事实上,许多研究发现,你使用社交媒体越多,你就越不快乐kLJN(Bd_XdLaB1L

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In his book, Happiness 101: Simple Secrets to Smart Living and Well-Being,

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博诺在《幸福101:智慧生活并获得幸福的简单秘密》一书中指出,

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Bono argues this is because social media—especially picture-heavy platforms such as Instagram—

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这是因为社交媒体,特别是像Instagram这样包含大量图片的平台,

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showcases things others have that we don't, making us want more and appreciate less.

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展示了别人拥有而我们没有的东西,这会让我们想要的更多,而更少地去欣赏我们的所有HR211y(fIEK

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Santos echoes this idea in her course.

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桑托斯在课程中也表达了这一观点,

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She warns of ways our minds trick us into feeling less happy,

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她警告说,我们的想法会欺骗我们,使我们感到不那么快乐#|y5I,Rxz^pc.]mA_(N

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such as by comparing ourselves with others who seem richer or more accomplished.

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比如,将自己与其他看起来更富有或更有成就的人进行比较FOzG3nVK@lBMi)

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And with the volume of carefully curated digital personas online,

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而与大量精心策划过的网络虚拟人物相对比,

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the comparison is far less likely to be favorable—or, for that matter, true.

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远不是一件对我们有利的事情,而且也不真实~(odnaDA0uWKmKdW7

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Perform acts of kindness.

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Volunteering to help someone or buying a coffee for the person behind you in line can make you happier

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主动帮助别人或给排在你后面的人买杯咖啡,会比做一些自我放纵的事情,

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than doing self-indulgent things such as getting a massage or a pedicure.

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比如做次按摩或做足部护理更让你开心fp.J3K&NXITGUmqaKWs

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"You just feel good about yourself as a person,"

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加州大学河滨分校的桑娅·柳博米尔斯基说:

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says Sonja Lyubomirsky of the University of California, Riverside, another of Santos's sources.

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“你会对自己感觉良好Kd+oOC)ueZk。”

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"Whereas if you're treating yourself, it might actually lead to feelings of guilt afterward.

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而如果你自己去享受,这可能会导致在事后出现内疚感5j-7%~TIot5.Pu

重点讲解


1.such as 比如;像这种的

Some houses still lack basic amenities such as bathrooms.
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2.lead to 导致;引起

There were fears that privatization would lead to job losses.
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