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We then walk down to my dad's car. He had a tur- old turquoise Ford Cortina.
然后我们一起下楼走到我爸爸的车旁边。他当时有一辆老式的绿色福特跑天下
He takes shoe polish and paints the lights of the of the car.
他把鞋油拿出来，涂在车前灯上
Why? Again later I know because at night when you drive with your lights on, you don't want the lights to be too bright in case of an air raid
为什么呢？也是后来我才知道，因为在夜里开车的时候，你开着车灯，车灯不能太亮，以防会遭到空袭
So he paints the lights. And I watch him do all that.
所以他涂了车灯，我就在一旁看着他
And then he picks me up and hugs me and says once again, I'll be back in a few days.
然后他把我抱起来，又一次的抱着我说：我过几天就回来
He gets into his car. And I begin to sob uncontrollably.
然后他上了车，我开始控制不住的哭泣
One of our neighbours whose name is Sharlon. He is too old to go into the army.
我们的邻居沙龙，他年岁太高不能服役

So he is standing there. We all look at my dad going off in the car. He picks me up. And I'm crying.
他站在一边，我们一起看着我爸爸开车走了，他把我抱起来，我还在哭
And he looks at me and says, Tal, do you want to be a soldier like Aba, like your dad when you grow up? And I say, Yes, I do.
他看着我说：塔尔，你长大以后想和爸爸一样去当兵吗？我说我想
Well, soldiers don't cry. And I stopped crying.
他说：那好，士兵是不会哭的。于是我不哭了
And I didn't cry for almost 20 years after that.
之后将近20年，我再也没哭过
Then I came to Harvard. And I started to study psychology.
我上了哈佛大学，我开始学心理学
You know where I'm going, right? I started to study psychology. And studying psychology,
你们知道我要讲什么是吧？我开始学心理学。学心理学
I realized one of the things that I wanted to work on. One of the most important things that I wanted to work on was getting in touch with my feminine side,
我知道自己想要做的，想要做的最重要的事情之一就是找到自己女性化的一面
knowing Jung's language, the Yin and the Yang; the anima the animus.
用荣的话说，就是阴和阳；雌雄同体

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课程简介：

我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。