1. Be proud of who you are
1.为自己感到骄傲
Sometimes pride is a tough thing to have or get rid of if you have too much of it. You are who you are, and as long as you treat people with respect, stand up for what you believe in, avoid arrogance and love yourself wholeheartedly, you can’t go wrong.
有时候骄傲是一件很难的事情，或者如果你过度骄傲的话，也很难摒弃骄傲。你就是你自己，只要你尊敬他人，坚持自己所坚信的事情，避免自大，全心全意爱自己，你就不会错。
That’s the type of person others look up to. Being that type of person not only allows you to be proud of who you are but also allows you to look up to yourself and know that you’re just as good as any other person with the same values.
那就是受人尊重的一种类型的人。成为这种类型的人不仅会让你为自己感到骄傲，而且还会让你自己尊重自己，让你知道你和其他任何有相同价值观的人一样优秀。

2. Let others look up to you
2.让他人尊敬你
It’s not the ultimate goal for being the best person you can be, but it’s exactly what follows when you’re able to be your own role model. Others will see you as a role model, too, which in turn will allow you to be even more confident that you’re on the right path. Being a role model to yourself is the best way to go about allowing others to see you as one.
这并不是成为你可以成为的最好的一个人的终极目标，而是当你能够成为自己的榜样的时候的真正可以追逐的方向。
When you allow yourself to look in the mirror with the same admiration you see when you look at your mother, best friend or even a person you’ve never met like a celebrity or your favorite Pulitzer winner, you become a force of your own.
当你让自己在照镜子的时候，就像是以崇拜的眼神看自己的母亲、最好的朋友，甚至你从未见过的名人或者最喜欢的普列策奖得主一样，你成为了自己的推动力。
3. You are your best role model
3.你是你自己最好的榜样
No one is exactly like you, so no one else’s good decisions are going to be as good for you. When you can see yourself as the only person you need to look up to, this is when the best part of your life begins.
没有人完全和你一样，所以没有人做出比你自己做出的决定还要好的人。当你将自己看作是唯一可以尊重的人的时候，这就是你人生最好的篇章开始的时候。