I spend too much time feeling negative and sorry for myself. I have a great family and great friends, but sometimes I just don't feel like it's enough. I should consider myself lucky for all the things I have to be gratefui in my life.

我不能老是态度消极、自怨自艾。我有很好的家人、很好的朋友，可是有时候就是觉得不够。感谢老天让我拥有这一切，我知道自己应该觉得很幸运了。

I have a nice apartment, a great job, a good education from a prestigious uuniversity, a nice car, lots of fashionable clothes...why do I feel like there is something missing? It seems very selfish and greedy to want more when I am so fortunate.

我有一套不错的公寓、一份好工作，又是知名大学的毕业生;还有不错的车子代步，流行服饰也是一大堆……为什么我总感觉少了什么?我已经这么幸运了，还想多要些什么好像太自私、太贪心了一点。

I know what it is. Everone I know ia getting married and endgaged and I am the only single one left in our circle of friend. I always pretend that I don't mind being the only one who is not part of a couple, but it really does bother me. It makes me feel like there is something wrong with me.

我知道问题出在哪里。每个我认识的人不是结婚就是订婚了，朋友圈里只剩我还是小姑独处。看到别人成双成对只有自己不是，虽然我向来假装不在意，但其实心里有点难受，好像问题是出在自己身上。

My mom has started talking about how she wants grandchildren soon. I know she doesn't want to put pressure on me. She wants me to be happy. But still, it seems that everything lately reminds me that I am single and that makes me feel lonely.

妈妈也开始说起好想快点抱孙子什么的，我知道她不想给我压力，希望我过得开心，但最近好像所有的事都在提醒我怎么还是单身，想想不禁觉得有点孤单。