Have you been into a bad relationship in the past? Did you feel like your world has tumbled down and you don't want to love again? Have you moved on from it now? Are you ready to love again? There are so many things to consider and realize before you can say, "I am ready to Love again". You have to see it in yourself if you have indeed picked up the pieces and made yourself whole again. Anyone can say "I am ready to love" but deep inside, it is just their excuse sometimes to save themselves from the pain and humiliation of coming from a failed relationship.

过去，有没有错爱过一个人？当时，是不是觉得整个世界都崩塌了，再也不想再恋爱了？从那以后，你又恋爱过吗？现在，你准备好再爱一次了吗？在你可以说出“我要再爱一次，我准备好了”之前，有好多事需要想清楚。你要问问自己是否可以把自己破碎的心再拼起来。这就话人人都可以说出口，但是，在内心里，有时，这只是逃避痛苦或摆脱恋爱失败觉得丢脸的借口。

Before you can say "I am ready to love again", examine yourself properly first. There are times that you can say this immediately but when your old flame comes back, you will crumble down and feel the pain again. You have to be sure because when you are going to declare this to all the eligible bachelors and bachelorette in the world, you're sure of it you will not hurt anyone you are dating along the way.

在你可以说出“我要再恋爱，我准备好了”之前，先好好审视一下自己。有时候，这句话你可以脱口而出但是当旧爱来临，你又会觉得世界崩塌满是伤痕。你必须要确定你已经准备好了，因为当你向世界上所有还在寻找爱的人宣布它时，你必须确定你在和别人约会时，你不会伤害她。

How will you find out if your heart is ready to open itself to someone who deserves your love? You will know it if you continue reading below.
怎样才能知道自己的心已经做好准备却接受另外一颗值得你爱的心呢？接着读下去，你会知道答案。

You are Happy with your Life and you are Contented
你觉得生活很幸福，你很满足

Even if your past partner is just around the corner and you see him or her oftentimes but they don't affect you anymore, then you have moved on. Now, if you are happy with what you are doing and you feel contented with yourself and what you do, then you have to open your heart now to someone and love him or her.

如果你的旧爱就再不远处，他总是出现在你身边，但他再也不会在你心里掀起波澜，那么你真的可以继续了。现在，如果你很享受现在的生活，对你自己和你所做的事都很满意，那么，敞开你的心扉，去爱上他吧！

You can go out and Meet other People Confidently
你可以走出门去自信的约会了

If you feel good about yourself and you go out and meet people then you are conditioning yourself to find a potential partner. But, how will you know if you are ready to love him or her? You will know it if you do not hesitate to go out with them, do things with them and allow yourself to enjoy every moment being with them. You are not holding back and having inhibitions means you say to the world "I am ready to love".

你自我感觉很好，那么走出门去，去找一个可以约会的对象。可是，怎样才能知道自己是否真的已经准备好去爱他了呢？如果有约会邀请时你已不再迟疑，可以喝他们一起做些事情，和他们在一起时每时每刻都和开心，那么我想你已经知道答案了。你不在彷徨，不再畏惧，这就意味着你可以像全世界宣布“我准备好了！”

You are not scared to be with someone
和他在一起，你不再害怕

Sometimes, when one is not ready to open up his or her heart to someone, they often hold back there feelings and emotions. They put boundaries between the person they are currently dating for fear that they will get hurt again. Fearing that you are too happy being with someone at the moment means that you are not yet ready and you have not yet opened you heart to the world.

有时候，当你准备好向一个人敞开心的时候，他们会将自己的感觉和想法藏起来。他们会自我保护，因为他们也害怕会再受伤害。当你在某一刻依旧害怕和一个人在一起太幸福时，那么你就还没有准备好，还没有对这个世界敞开你的心。

You Accept Faults and don't Criticize
你可以接受他的不完美，不会因此抱怨

Loving is accepting other people and loving them for who they are. If you are on the process of looking for potential partners and are participating in arranged dates but you always find yourself criticizing the person before he or she can show you who they are, then you are not ready to love yet. If you find yourself comparing your date with your ex then you have not yet moved on. Therefore do not declare the "I am ready to love" statement to the world. It is because it is clear that you are not ready to love yet.

爱是接受一个人，你爱他是因为他就是他。如果你正在寻找可以约会的对象，参加了相亲，但还没等到了解他这个人就开始对他指手画脚，那么你就还没有准备好。如果你总是那他和旧爱相比，那么你还没有准备好。所以，就不要对世界宣布“我准备好了！”，因为很明显，你还没有准备好。