爱自己

The power of attraction is a very useful thing. There is a common misconception that physical appearance completely determines attractiveness, but this is simply not true. If you want people to be drawn to you, there are a variety of things you can do as a woman that will have others flocking to you in time.

Love yourself. You can be pretty but still unattractive if you don't start to love yourself.
学会打扮
不要相信男人说不在乎你的外表之内的甜言蜜语，女人爱美是天性，男人爱美女是本性，所以，学着让自己做一个时尚达人，任何时候不要把自己邋遢的一面表露在外，优雅的出门。从容、优雅的女人，在男人心目中比胸大的女人更有魅力。

做自己

Be distinctly you. Be yourself. If you ever observe people at a party or any social gathering, you'll always see the majority of guys drawn to women with unique (but not intimidating) personalities.
　做唯一的自己。独立的女人，有一种知性美，任何时候不要指望这个世界上有谁能一辈子不从你生命里消失，别指望着靠谁过活。一个独立的女人，拥有一份稳定的收入，是女人获得幸福的捷径。

多做运动

Be healthy. Eyes take kindly to a woman who takes care of herself, and that means finding a happy medium for your weight, eating well, getting enough sleep and exercising.
多做运动。只有会爱自己的女人才能得到别人的爱。

保护皮肤

Take care of your skin. Blemishes (especially on your face) can be very distracting.
保护好自己的皮肤。麻麻点点很影响你的形象。

做好个人卫生

Be hygienic. Maintain yourself so that you always smell and look fresh and lovely.
保持卫生。任何时候要让你闻起来香香的，给人干净清爽的感觉。

头发干净整齐

Keep your hair healthy and styled. They say that the hair is the portrait of the face, so it has to look great.
保持头发清洁。人常说头发是整个脸的象征，因此很重要。

态度友好

Be nice. A rude person turns ugly in the eyes of whoever sees her, but a nice person turns into a prettier person in the eyes of everyone who sees her.
　　任何时候，不要跟别人吵架，尤其是男人。动粗只会降低了你的自己的尊严，当矛盾产生的时候，冷静的转身，去一个安静的地方坐着，比如咖啡厅、茶楼，总之，想办法给自己空间去反省。

学会微笑

Smile. Don't walk around all the time with a frown or even a neutral expression on your face.
学会微笑。不要总是愁眉不展，让脸部表情舒展自然。

参加集体活动

Be willing to participate. Whether it's talking, eating, gaming, dancing, or snorkeling, it's only polite to join in.
积极参加集体活动。不论是说话，吃饭，做游戏还是舞会，积极参加是一种礼貌。

善于交际

Be capable of carrying on a conversation. You don't necessarily have to have something in common with a guy for him to take interest in you but if he tries to talk to you and you just stand there, he's going to move on.
　　如果，你实在不喜欢看书，那么就看新闻吧。有内涵的女人，就是一朵玫瑰，能暗自散香。每个男人都希望自己娶一个知情达理的女人，与时俱进的女人更能让男人欲罢不能。知识是永远不能抹去的力量，所以平时除了逛服装店，也去逛逛书店吧。想要获得幸福，就从爱自己开始。获得幸福的捷径，一直都在身边，女人通常容易忽略了爱自己这条捷径。

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