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今天在 #休闲娱乐 栏目中，我们来聊聊“爱情”，不对，我们来聊聊“和对的人一起谈恋爱有多么爽” Let's talk about love, no, dating with the right person in today’s program.

What are the differences between love and like?爱情和恋爱有啥区别？

大概“我懂你”胜过千言万语，倾听对方的需求、尊重对方并站在对方的立场思考问题，碰到问题一起解决，一起成长，相互成就才是两性关系的秘诀。

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together. （Robert Dodds）婚姻的目的不是要思想一致，而是要共同思考。

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同学留言说：“乃夫老师，学生想迈出第一步去追喜欢的人，可是周围的同学都说，先认真的人就输了。现在很害怕对方不在意我的情感，但也不想就此错过。”

如果你是情感咨询师，你怎么回答呢？

（5分钟的两性关系专家的英文视频发布在“可可英语口语”公众号009期节目）

我们看看能学到什么

1.Men's brains are unique. Men's brains are made of little boxes.

男人的大脑是独一无二的。男人的大脑是由小盒子组成的。

2.The rule is the box doesn't touch each other.

规矩是盒子不能碰对方。

3.Women's brains are very very different from men's brains. Women's brains are made of a big ball of wires. And everything is connected with everything.

女人的大脑和男人的非常不同。女人的大脑是由一大团电线组成的。万物相互联系。

4.Women's brains are driven by energy that we call emotion. That's the reason why women tend to remember everything. So, women tend to care about everything.

女性的大脑是由我们称之为情感的能量所驱动的。这就是为什么女人倾向于记住一切的原因。所以，女人倾向于关心一切。

5.Men have a box in our brains that women are not aware of. This particular box has nothing in it. In fact we call it the nothing box. And the nothing box is our favorite box.

男人的大脑里有一个盒子，女人却没有意识到。这个盒子里什么都没有。事实上，我们称它为“放空盒”。“放空盒”是我们最喜欢的盒子。

6.A study conducted by University of Pennsylvania discovers that men have the ability to think about absolutely nothing but still breathe.

宾夕法尼亚大学进行的一项研究发现，男人有一种能力，可以什么都不思考，但仍能呼吸。

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