To learn they cannot make anyone love them.

All they can do is let themselves be loved.

To learn that it is not good

to compare themselves to others.

To learn that is only takes a few seconds.

To open profound wounds in those they love,

and it can take many years to heal them.

要知道他们不可能人见人爱。

他们能做的只是让自己被爱。

要知道他们与他人比较毫无益处。

要知道在他们深爱的人身上打开一道深深的口子只需要几秒。

却需要多年的努力去予以修复。