(单词翻译:单击)
You know what, I'm sorry, I can do that.
你知道吗，对不起，我有能力这么做。
I am 240 pounds.
我体重240磅。
I got a lot of muscle I can make; I can handle it.
我有很多肌肉，我能应付得来。
The masculinity part is like, yo, wait, wait a minute.
男子汉气概的部分就像……等等，等等。
But then I had to think, wait a minute, I am a black man in America.
但后来我不得不想，等一下，我是一个黑人，在美国。
Wait a minute, wait a minute.
等一等，等一等。
He is a very, very rich, successful white man.
他是一个非常非常富有、非常成功的白人。
This is his party.
这是他的派对。
If I hit him, what's going to happen to me.
如果我打了他，我将会怎样？
Now we're talking about a power dynamic.
现在我们谈论的是一种权力动态。
Most of these things don't deal with sex.
这些事情中的大多数都与性无关。
The whole Met Too thing is never about sex.
整个“我也是”的事情从来都不是关于性的。
It's about power.
这是关于权力的。
It's about people who want to manipulate and use their power and abuse their power.
它是关于那些想要操纵和使用他们的权力并滥用他们的权力的人。
That's what it's about.
这就是它的意义所在。
Now, one thing, I got some solution, this is the thing that I have a theory.
现在，我有一些解决方案，这是我的理论。
I have a total theory.
我有一个完整的理论。
My theory being that, you know, when I say women are manipulated through fear and guys are manipulated through pride,
我的理论是，女人被恐惧控制而男人被骄傲控制，
well, with that theory on the line here, some of these, one of the things that I would like to suggest to young people today,
有了这个理论，我想对今天的年轻人提出的建议之一，
and to the young women in this room and to the young men in this room, one of my suggestions for women to combat this kind of thing is that women be fearless.
对于在座的年轻女性和年轻男性，我对女性对抗这种事情的建议之一是，女性要无所畏惧。
Fearless!
无所畏惧！
Let me tell you how, the only way I changed, the only way I woke up is my wife left me.
唯一让我做出改变，让我清醒的是，我的妻子离开了我。
My wife left me, and you know what happened?
我的妻子离开了我，你知道发生了什么吗？
I was like, oh, you know what, go ahead and go. Fine.
我就说，走啊，无所谓。
You know what, I'm successful.
我很成功。
Everybody thinks I'm great.
每个人都认为我很棒。
You know, Hollywood doesn't care if you lose your family, they don't care.
好莱坞不在乎你是否失去了家人，他们也不在乎。
I get two or three other movies. It's all right.
我得到了两三部其他电影的资源。没事的。
Everybody thinks I'm wonderful.
每个人都认为我很棒。
But the problem was, I knew I wasn't wonderful.
但问题是，我知道自己并不出色。
And she knew I wasn't wonderful.
她知道我不是很棒。
So, all of a sudden, I got a little voice and I said, you know what, maybe it's me.
于是，突然间我听到一个声音，我说，也许是我。
Maybe it's not her, maybe it's not my abusive father, maybe it’s not the fact that I'm black, maybe it's not all these other reasons that I could point to and kind of figure it all out, but maybe it's me.
也许不是她，也许不是我的家暴父亲，也许不是我是黑人的事实，也许不是所有这些我可以指出并有点弄清楚的原因，但也许是我自己。
And then I had to come to a deep realization that it was me. It was.
然后我不得不深深地意识到，就是我。确实是。
Her fearlessness and the fact that she took on the fact that she might be alone.
她表现出的无畏和她接受了可能独自一人的事实。
Just, I couldn't believe it actually made me see, because everything that I thought I knew and had, and I was the cool man and I had it all together, it was all a lie.
只是，我不敢相信这真的让我看到了，我以为我知道和拥有的一切，我是一个很酷的人，我拥有的这一切都是谎言。
