克服拖延症的11种方法(3)
日期:2020-08-19 11:56

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You can't find some work reward that's going to take the place of procrastination.

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你找不到任何可以替代拖延症的工作奖励

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If the reward of procrastination is that you get to spend five minutes distracted by Facebook and sort of see these updates of your friends.

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如果拖延症的奖励是你可以花五分钟玩脸书 或者是看看朋友们最新的动态

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You have to allow yourself to do that. That has to be part of your workday.

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那就去做吧 它必定得成为你日常工作的一部分

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If you need five minutes every hour to look at tweets or to just surf the internet, you need to schedule that into your schedule.

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如果你每小时都要花五分钟去看推特或者是上网 你就得把这件事加到你的时间安排里去

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Allow yourself to do that because when people start procrastinating what they've done is they've tried to ignore that urge.

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允许自己那么做 因为人们开始拖延的时候 他们其实是在忽略那种紧迫感

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They've tried to deny themselves time on Facebook or time surfing the web.

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他们努力不让自己玩脸书或上网

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And then all of a sudden it erupts and they go and they say I'm just going to check for five minutes and 45 minutes later they've lost all of this time.

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然后突然间 这种欲望爆发了 他们会说 我只刷5分钟 于是不知不觉45分钟就过去了

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It's because they haven't accommodated that need.

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这是因为他们还没有适应自己的这种需求

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Once a habit exists you can't just quelch it.

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当某种习惯一旦形成 你不能直接压制它

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You can't pretend it's not there.

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你不能假装无视它

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You have to sort of accommodate this need in your life.

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你得在生活中适应这种需求

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And so the answer is to give yourself five minutes every hour.

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所以答案就是每小时给自己拿出5分钟

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In fact you can set an alarm. At the end of every hour give yourself five minutes to surf the web.

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其实你可以设个闹钟 每小时的最后5分钟拿来上网

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Because if you allow yourself five minutes every hour it won't explode into 45 minutes because you've been trying to suppress it.

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如果你愿意每小时给自己5分钟 它就不会因为你的克制一下子膨胀成45分钟

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The literature there's a term for this.

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这种做法有个术语

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It's called structured procrastination where you basically do lots of little things that give you the sense that you're making progress without actually making any progress.

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叫结构化拖延症 也就是你做很多小事 让你觉得自己在进步 但实际上却没有任何进步

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It's very easy to get ourselves to do lots of little tasks that gives us momentary slight joy.

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我们很容易让自己去做很多小事 这些小事能带给我们短暂的快乐

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Oh, I erased another email. Oh, I responded to that email and so on.

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哦 我删掉了另一封邮件 哦 我回复了那封邮件 等等

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Without thinking long term.

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却没有长远考虑

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There should always be a look towards the future.

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我们应该永远期待未来

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We are always growing and evolving and progressing.

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我们总在成长、进化和进步

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There is no finish line in life ultimately and I think that's tough for some to accept because we think okay, I crossed the finish line, now what.

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生活没有最后的终点线 很多人难以接受这一点 因为我们会觉得 好 我过终点线了 现在干什么

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You're not dead. There's more work to do. Look at that.

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你又没死 还有很多事情要做呢 看看

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In long term thinking it's really what causes real joy.

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从长远考虑 这才是真正的快乐源泉

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And it's not easy, right. It's not easy.

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做到这一点并不容易 很难

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I get about 300 emails a day. I wake up, I open my laptop.

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我每天会收到300封邮件 一早上醒来 打开电脑

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It's always a moment of slight depression. Oh, my goodness. I have to deal with all of this.

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总会有一种沮丧感 哦天哪 我得处理这么多的邮件

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And I could spend my whole day doing email. And email here's an analogy.

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我一整天都可以花在回复邮件上 这里的邮件是个比喻

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There's an analogy for all the things that you have to do but they're not giving you a true sense of accomplishment.

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它是指那些你不得不做 但却又无法给你真正的成就感的事情

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And the real challenge – and it's not easy is to carve time to do the things that you would say at the end of three months, six months, a year and so on will give me a sense that I'm actually contributing doing something useful.

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真正的挑战——难的是挤出时间去做那些三个月 六个月 一年之后会让你觉得确实有用的事情

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So personally I do this with writing.

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我自己的选择是写作

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It's very easy to spend a whole day responding to email.

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一整天都用来回复邮件不是什么难事

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I try to protect some time and say I'm going to write.

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我试着留出一点时间去写作

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I'm going to actually stop. I'm going to think. It will take me awhile.

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我要停下来 我要思考 它会花上点时间

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Sometimes I'll write something I said the whole time was useless.

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有时候我会写一些我经常说的没用的话

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I didn't really progress enough but from time to time there is progress and over time it creates a body of knowledge that you say this is actually a very useful thing.

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我并没有取得足够的进步 但有时会有进步 随着时间的推移 它创造了一个知识体系 会让你觉得这是一件很有用的事

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