读者文摘:给人留下聪明印象的技巧(1)
日期:2020-01-17 16:43

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Sheepishly, Kevin Adkins admits that when he's insecure, he uses big words to appear smarter.
凯文·阿德金斯不好意思地承认,当他缺乏安全感时,他会用一些大词来显得更聪明@W1OdFkRZiVi6[
"Only when I need to impress the person," says the 45-year-old. "Dates with women? Definitely.
这个45岁的家伙说道,“只在我需要给这个人留下印象的时候Qh7+R&=Vs!eVq@NZKq~。”“和女人约会?肯定的Dlza2S^kYW0
At the grocery store? Not so much." A few years ago, when flirting with a stylist at the barbershop,
在杂货店?没那么多-fnL3jmu1A7rjT。”几年前,在理发店和一个造型师调情时,
he asked her to give him a "symmetric" hair-cut instead of just requesting that she trim it evenly.
他要求她给他剪一个“对称的”发型,而不是仅仅要求她修剪均匀#.*;C9xNa6
And when he gave an attractive woman directions,
他在指示这个迷人的女人时,
he made a point of telling her that the two options they'd discussed were "equidistant"
他向这个女人强调说,他们讨论的两个选项是“等距”,
rather than simply saying that both were about the same distance.
而不是简单地距离大概相同u#bEd6TBRWU-8V
Adkins is among the myriad Homo sapiens who suffer from periphrasis.
阿德金斯是众多饱受迂回表达之苦的智人之一d3O&0x&|vp6@_g
Translation: Many of us use longer words in place of shorter ones.
翻译:我们中很多人使用长话代替短话rLRD6^JZmhB|bJSHXUb
Because folks know, consciously or unconsciously, that others form impressions of them after a glance or a short conversation,
因为人们知道,不论有意还是无意,另一些人是在一瞥或简短的交谈后形成对他们的印象,
they often work harder to give the "right" impression.
他们经常更努力地去留下“正确”的印象%Jw~-V&XO3L|NjzS
"People think, If I can show that I have a good vocabulary, I'll sound smarter,"
“人们认为,如果我用词高级的话,我听起来会更聪明.yqg[nsz|)。”
says Daniel Oppenheimer, PhD, a professor of psychology at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh.
匹兹堡卡内基梅隆大学的心理学教授丹尼尔·奥本海默博士说道Q1WBJ0hE%5h
The problem with this plan is that it can easily go wrong.
这个计划的问题是它很容易出错7#vU3%t8%!y1RW

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"It's almost a game that two people are playing," says Eric R. Igou, PhD, a social psychologist at Ireland's University of Limerick.
“这几乎是两个人在玩的游戏,”爱尔兰利默里克大学的社会心理学家埃里克·R·艾构博士说8Sikpi;~@7;n[
"If the observer, person B, doesn't have the same theory, it can backfire."
“如果这个观察者,人物B没有同样的理论,它可能会产生反效果Fp9oU#rFcy。”
Person A may be perceived as pretentious instead of intelligent.
人物A可能会被视作自命不凡的人而不是智慧的人-&qMITUg_-Fa]
Using big words may also confuse listeners, which is definitely moving in the wrong direction.
使用大词可能也会使听的人迷惑,这肯定会走向错误的方向+;jg(lVeu1)e
"People associate intelligence with clarity of expression," says Oppenheimer.
奥本海默说,“人们将智慧和清晰的表达联系在一起vrZVlM3(bWIsO。”
That's especially true when it comes to the written word.
在使用书面语时,这一点尤其正确(ZvaSst)hPKw1Kl
A small study cited in Applied Cognitive Psychology found a negative relationship between complexity of writing and judged intelligence:
《应用认知心理学》上引用的一项小型研究发现,写作的复杂性与判断能力之间存在负相关关系:
The more writers tried to sound smart, the less intelligent they were perceived to be.
作家越是想听起来更聪明,人们对他们的感知就越不聪明_RFRs!kvQv8
So what can you do to sound smarter? Speak clearly and directly. Leave the dictionary and thesaurus at your desk.
你可以做什么让自己听起来更聪明呢?清晰和直接的表达XWTLB5V0x6,O。把词典和宝库放在你的桌上J2Vam[3+wTme-S%pZ
And follow these tips, which come from behavioral psychologists (and other very bright people)
还有遵从以下来自行为心理学家(和其他很聪明的人)的建议

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重点讲解

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1.make a point of注意;强调
We should make a point of summing up the experience in all fields of work.
我们要注意总结各方面的工作经验4BTP+Xr3aw
2.in place of 代替
Laurence Waters visited us in place of John Trethewy who was unfortunately ill.
劳伦斯·沃特斯代替不幸生病的约翰·特雷休伊来拜访我们Z9L~#V4UX;
3.associate ...with联系
I always associate the smell of baking with my childhood.
一闻到烘烤食物的味道我就想起了童年xklr_7RS7V

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