5. FIND A MOTHER WITH KIDS IF IN DANGER AND ALONE

5.如果独自一人有危险，找一个带着孩子的妈妈

If your child is feeling lost or unsafe, there is no guarantee that there will be a friendly shop owner or police officer around to help.

如果你们孩子觉得自己迷路了或者有危险，附近不一定总会有友善的店主或者是警察帮忙。

That's why you should tell your children to find a mother with her children if they can.

因此你需要告诉你的孩子：如果可以的话，找一个带着孩子的妈妈。

This is not to say that people with children are automatically safe, but this option might just help in a stressful situation.

这并不意味着带着孩子的人一定安全，但是这个选择在比较危险的情形下或许会有所帮助。

6. WARN OTHERS IF YOU ARE IN DANGER

6.如果处于危险之中，警告他人

This tip is particularly useful as we often pass children having tantrums in adult's arms. In fact, we've seen it so many times, a lot of us have become immune to it.

这个小贴士尤其有用，因为我们经常看到一些在大人怀里发脾气的小孩。实际上，我们已经看过太多次这样的场景以至于有些人会对其免疫。

However, teaching your child to scream out words that would alarm others can be very useful if they ever end up in a dangerous situation.

然而，如果你的孩子处于危险之中，教他们大声喊出来一些可以警告他人的话会十分有用。

Phrases such as 'Who are you?', 'Help!', 'Leave me alone, I don't know you!' and 'Where's my mum and dad?' will all arouse suspicion and alert others to the danger.

像“你是谁？”、“救命！”、“走开，我不认识你！”和“我爸妈在哪儿？”这些话都能引起他人的怀疑，并且警戒他人自己有危险。

7. FIGHTING BACK MIGHT BE NECESSARY

7.抵抗是必要的

Lastly, you need to teach your children to be destructive in order to draw attention.

最后，你需要教你的孩子为了吸引他人注意而破坏一些东西。

If a stranger tries to take them, tell them that all manners are out of the window - and they are allowed to hit, scream and make a scene in order to attract attention.

如果一个陌生人试图带走他们，告诉他们这时候所有的礼仪都不需要了，他们可以打别人、尖叫、当众大吵大闹来吸引注意。

Natasha Daniels at Anxious Toddlers admits the 'chances are small' of your child being in such a perilous situation, but insists it's important to make sure they are alert.

Anxious Toddlers的娜塔莎-丹尼尔斯承认你的孩子置于此种危险的情况几率很小，但是她坚称确保孩子们能保持机警是很重要的。

She writes: 'What I can teach my kids in 30 minutes might make the difference between life and death.

她写道：在30分钟内我教给我孩子的东西可能会改变生死。

And for that – it’s worth it.'

因此，这很值得。

A spokesman for child protection charity NSPCC said: ‘Going out without a parent is a natural step for children to take when the time is right, so it’s crucial they feel prepared and confident.

英国全国防止虐待儿童学会(NSPCC)的发言人称：时机成熟时，没有家长陪同出门对于孩子来说是一个自然的步骤。所以他们感觉准备好了并且有自信是很重要的。

'Whilst it’s true that most child abuse is committed by someone they know and although abuse by strangers is very rare, the risk is still there.

尽管大多儿童虐待是孩子的亲近之人作为，而陌生人的虐待十分少见，但危险还是存在的。

'When giving advice parents should not unnecessarily frighten a child.

在给孩子建议的时候，家长不要去吓孩子。

They should put the potential dangers in perspective otherwise it could inadvertently cause a child to feel anxious.

他们应该如实地描述潜在的危险，不然会在无意中让孩子感到焦虑。

HOW TO MAKE SURE YOUR CHILD IS SAFE - NSPCC CHECKLIST

如何确认你的孩子是安全的—NSPCC清单

• Address the risks by talking to your child early on about staying safe.

•早些和孩子谈到独处时的安全问题，列出可能的危险。

Ask them what they would do if they were approached by a stranger.

问孩子如果一个陌生人接近他们，他们会怎么做。

• As soon as your child is able to understand, teach them their full name, address and two family phone numbers.

•当孩子开始有理解能力后，教他们全名，家庭地址以及两个家庭电话号码。

• Teach your child never to go off with anyone, not even someone they know, unless they’re able to contact you to check it’s OK.

•教你的孩子永远不要私自和别人一起离开，即使那个人是他们认识的人。只有在他们联系你，确认之后才可以。

• Set boundaries by being clear about any places you don’t want your child to go. Be willing to explain your decision so that your child understands your concerns.

•清楚地告诉他们你不想让他们去的地方并且乐于解释为什么你不想让他们去这些地方，这样他们才能理解你的担忧。

• If they feel uncomfortable or scared at any point tell them that they can ring you at any time.

•无论何时，如果他们感到不舒服或者害怕，告诉他们随时打电话给你。

If they can’t get reach you, advise them to approach someone in authority – whether that be a policeman, a shop assistant, a traffic warden, or someone similar, and explain that they are lost.

如果他们联系不上你，建议他们寻求权威人士的帮助—无论是警察、店员、交通管理员或者是类似的人，然后解释说自己迷路了。

• Do a trial run to help build their confidence.

•通过场景模拟来建立信心。

Let your child take the lead when you’re out together and only correct them if they do something that puts them at risk.'

当你们一起出去的时候，让你的孩子做主导，只需要在他们做了一些会将他们置于险境的事情时纠正一下。