10. “Can I buy you a drink?”
Asking for another drinkIf you are really serious about finding the person of your dreams, go out and look for him or her. One of the easiest ways to find your your Mr. or Ms. Perfect is to hang out in a bar. You will never find your would-be significant other inside your kitchen cupboard. Go out, have fun and meet people. There are many reasons why this is effective. First, this is where guys and girls who love to have fun go and if you’re that type, you just might find someone meant for you here. Second, alcohol gives you enough courage and confidence to make the first move. Some of the greatest love stories do not even get a chance to start because both people are afraid to approach and introduce themselves to each other. What a shame.
Why you should do it: Even if you don’t meet anyone, you still had your booze. Nothing to lose!
10. "我能请你喝一杯吗？“
假如你真的想找到自己的梦中情人，那么，就到外面找乐子，同时找目标。最简单的方法就是在酒吧邂逅。在自家厨房是绝对找不到梦中情人的。得外出找乐并结识他人。很多理由都可证明这是很有效的方法。首先，酒吧是男生女生的玩乐的好地方，而如果你恰好也是这一类人，或许你就能遇到你的他或她。其次，酒精会使你勇气百倍，信心十足，促使你踏出勇敢的一步。那些凄美的爱情故事还没来得及开始就结束了就是因为两个人都羞于主动接近和毛遂自荐。真是可惜了！

这么做的理由：即使你没邂逅他人，你也没什么损失，因为你也乐在其中了。

9. “Hi. ASL?”
Chatting on the internetOn second thought, you can still look for the person of your dreams without leaving your house. All you need is a good Internet connection. Cyberspace has become an active social world for romance-seekers all over the planet. People who are looking for love sometimes find themselves surfing the net, logging in some networking sites or entering chat rooms, hoping to find the person of their dreams. Although it is regarded as absurd by some people, we cannot deny the fact that there are successful love stories that started through the Internet. In cyberspace, you’ll find all sorts of people; it is impossible not to find someone who at least matches your taste. What is harder to accomplish is finding a person who suits you AND who is serious about meeting people on the web. Yes, the Internet bridges people from all over the world and allows them to find true love in an instant. You have to remember, however, that cyberspace is not the safest place in the world to meet the person of your dreams. Without proper discretion and care, your dream romance can turn into a nightmare. You have to explore cyberspace carefully.
Why you should do it: Who cares? Everyone does it anyway.
9.”嗨，性别，年龄和所在地？“
再三思量，你足不出户也可以找到自己的梦中情人。你所要的只是一根网线。网络已经成为全球爱情的活跃世界。那些在寻找爱情的人有时却发现自己是在上网，登陆网站，或进入聊天室，期冀能遇上自己的梦中情人。虽然在有些人认为这有点荒唐，但是不可否认很多爱情故事都是在网络中诞生。在网络世界，你可以遇到各式各样的人，你总能找到符合自己品味的人。困难的是你很难找到适合自己的，并对见网友持认真态度的人。是的，网络为世界各地的人搭建了桥梁，并让人们在第一时间找到真爱成为现实。但没有正确的方向和态度，你的浪漫之梦会成为噩梦。你必须谨慎地上网。

这么做的理由：谁在乎呢？每个人都玩这个。

8. “Peace be with you.”
Giving a peace signReligious differences are sometimes blamed for unsuccessful relationships. If you want to be sure that you will be spiritually compatible with the person you want to meet, go to a church, synagogue, temple or wherever your religion has for a place of worship. This situation has a couple of advantages. First, religious difference will not be an issue. Second, you are sure that the person is spiritually healthy and responsible. If you feel guilty about doing this, don’t be. It is not like you are doing a blasphemous act. You are just practicing your religion, and while you are at it, why not do some multi-tasking? You want to find the person of your dreams? Praying might be a big help. Just don’t hike your skirt a little higher while you do it.
Why you should do it: Hey, God said, “Be fruitful and multiply.” You’re just being obedient.
8. “心存一方净土。”
宗教上的分歧有时会导致恋情的失败。假如你想确认你和他是否在精神信仰上一致，那么去基督教堂，犹太教堂，寺庙等能祭拜你宗教信仰的地方。这种方法有一定的优势。首先，宗教信仰分歧就不会是个问题了。其次，这样你 可以由此确定你感兴趣的人在精神上是健康的，并且是个负责任的人。如果你觉得这么做你会有内疚感，那就大可不必。因为你这么做不是在亵渎神灵。你只是在实践自己的信仰，而既然你都这么做了，那为什么不一石二鸟呢？你要找到自己的梦中情人？那么去做祷告吧，记得祷告时别把裙子往上拉。

这么做的理由：嘿，上帝说：”要丰收多产。“你只是遵循指示而已。

7. “Is this seat taken?”
Studying togetherYou are looking for the person of your dreams? Go to school and study. Yes, your one true love might be that geeky-looking guy sitting beside you in your Molecular Biology and Biotechnology class. We have seen this scene in many movies and we will see a couple more. The classroom is a usual place for romantic relationships to develop. If your university days are over, then do the search in your world — the workplace
Why you should do it: You need inspiration at school or in the workplace, right?
7.“我可以坐这儿吗？”
你正在寻找你的梦中情人吗？去学校学习吧。是的，你的真爱或许就是上分子生物和生物技术课时，坐在你身旁的那个书呆子。我们曾经无数次在银幕中看到这么一出戏，而我们也能预见未来的一对。课室通常是发展恋情的一个好场所。但如果你已经毕业了，那么转移阵地，在你所工作的地方碰运气吧。

这么做的理由：不论在学习还是在工作上，你都需要灵感，不是吗？

6. “That suits you.”
Finding a bookThe next easiest way to find the person of your dreams is hanging out at your local bookshop, music store and department store. If you’re a girl, stay near the men’s section of the department store. You can tell his personality by the way he shops. Is he impatient? Is he fickle? Is he indecisive? Is he rich? Is he gay? After observing him for quite a while, make your move. Act like you’re buying something for your brother and you need some help. It’s a nice way of starting a conversation.
If you’re a guy, you can also hang out near the women’s section. You have to remember one important thing, though: never stay near the lingerie. You would surely send the wrong signal.
Why you should do it: Shopping is fun so while you’re at it, why not shop for romance, too.?
6. “那很适合你。”

接下来找寻梦中情人的简易方法就是逛书店，CD店，和百货商场。如果你是个女孩，你可在男士专区附近逗留。这样，从他的购物方式，你可以知悉他的个性。他是否耐心？是否善变？是否优柔寡断？是否有钱？是否是个同性恋？经过一阵的观察，然后采取行动。假装你是在买礼物给你的兄弟，并且需要他的帮助。这是建立谈话的好方式。如果你是个男生，你也可以在女士专区附近逗留。但必须牢记一点：别在内衣专区徘徊。不然，你肯定会被人误解。
这么做的理由：购物是快乐的，那么，何不在购物的同时寻找猎物呢？

5. “Wow. That’s great. You care about your… colon.”
Enhancing his musclesThey say that before you can ever love someone else fully, you have to love yourself first. That may be a little selfish but there is a hint of truth in that. Anyway, who would not love a person who wants to be healthy and look good. What is the top five easiest way to find the person of your dreams? Visit health stores and gyms.
Don’t be confused, though. It’s a health store, not a drugstore. You don’t want to be dating someone with herpes. Men and women who visit health stores care about their health and overall being — even when they do not feel sick. These are the type of people to tie the knot with — those who make sure that their hearts beat normally and their blood circulates well. These are the people who make sure that when they promise “forever,” they mean “a very long time.”
The gym is also a perfect place to find that darling. It is a room filled with the smell of sweat, hard muscles being stretched and active people who make sure they are physically fit. Doesn’t that turn you on? If not, then work out and someone will surely notice you and your discipline and determination to get fit.
The good thing about health stores and gyms is that even when you do not care about your health and physique, people think that you are a health buff just for being there. Who knows? Some customer might be looking at you, thinking exactly the same thing.
Why you should do it: Tight bottoms, six-packs, sexy curves… Why not?
5. “哇。太棒了。你在意你的。。。结肠。”

人们说在你全心全意爱别人之前，首先得爱自己。这听起来似乎有点自私，但却是事实。不管怎样，谁不想要个有着健康体魄的另一半呢？第五个寻找梦中情人的简易方法就是去诊所或是去健身房。
当然，别弄混了。那是诊所，而不是药店。你肯定不想与得疱疹的人约会。去诊所的男人，女人，只是在意自己的健康，即使自身并没犯病。人们都只想和心跳正常，血液循环流畅的人结婚。因为当人们说着“永远”这一誓言的时候，意味着要活得长久。
健身房也是寻找最爱的绝佳场所。健身房里充溢着健康的气息，到处到是伸展的肌肉和强健的身体。这引起你的兴趣没？假若没，那你就健身吧，一定会有人注意到你为了健康所作的努力。
诊所和健身房的好处在于即使你根本没在意自身的健康和体型，别人总以为你出现在那是因为你是个健康爱好者。谁知道呢？说不定一些人正盯着你，打着相同的主意.
这么做的理由：紧翘的臀，6块腹肌，S形的身体...何乐而不为呢？

4. How do I say ‘love’ in your language?
Waiting for a busAs of 2000, the total world population was more than 6 billion. For sure, there is at least one person out there that is meant for you. All that needs to happen is your paths to cross. If you have the money and time, travel. You’ll gain many benefits, such as seeing beautiful places, experience new cultures and meeting new people. One of those people could be the person you’ve been waiting for.
Why you should do it: There’s a lot of fish in the sea. Go for the best catch.
4. 用你们的话怎么说爱这个词？
2000年，世界人口超过60亿。那么当中肯定有一个为你而存在的人。要想故事发生，你们的轨迹必须要有交集。如果你有时间和金钱，那么去旅游吧。你会受益良多，如美景尽收眼底，感受不同的文化，和结识不同的人。其中说不定就有一个你一直在等待着的人。
这么做的理由：海大何患无鱼，只要最好那一只。

3. “Love thy neighbor.”
Waving at her neighborOh yes, God could have meant it literally when he said that. Sometimes, you don’t need to go to a faraway land just to find the person of your dreams. He or she might just be a few feet away. Your Ms. or Mr. Right may be living next door and you have no idea. What is the third easiest way to find true love? Be friendly with your neighbors. You might be surprised that you can go much further than being friends. So what are you waiting for? Bake some cookies. Put them in a basket. Knock on your neighbor’s door. Extend your hospitality with open arms. See what happens. It all starts from there.
Why you should do it: Again, God said so.
3. “爱你的邻居。”

是的，上帝确实是这么说的。有时，你不需要去一个遥远的地方寻找爱情。他或她或许仅在几步之遥。你的Ms.或Mr.right可能就住在隔壁，而你却一无所知。第三个寻找真爱的简易方法是什么呢？即
与你的邻居和睦相处。你也许会惊讶的发现你们远不只朋友那么简单。那你还等什么呢？烤些饼干，放在篮子里，敲开邻居的门，伸出你的友谊之手。看看会发生什么？一切都从这里开始。
这么做的理由：再一次，上帝是这么说的。

2. “I know your heart is good. Can I have it?”

OK, the above quote is cheesy, mushy and pathetic, but at least you get the point.
A Volunteer teacher for kidsNothing is more impressive than seeing someone offering himself to the world. That’s exactly why Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt are hot. Yes, physically, they are already attractive but they are hotter when they are in Vietnam doing charity work.

It’s easy to find a person with a beautiful face. But a person with a beautiful face AND a beautiful heart? That’s a little difficult to find. That’s why, if you are looking for a person who is beautiful inside and out, all you need to do is volunteer. What to volunteer for is tricky. You need to choose very carefully. For example, if you’re a guy, you don’t to be volunteering as a firefighter because there is a very little chance that you will find a woman there. If you’re gay, well, go on, be a volunteer firefighter.
Anyway, the point is, you sure want to spend the rest of your life with someone who cares not just about himself but also everyone. If you volunteer or do some charity work, you will meet selfless people who always put the welfare of others first. If he cares about other people, he surely cares more about the people he or she loves. Don’t you want to be loved by someone like that? When it’s Christmas, dress up like Santa Claus. When disaster strikes, help in the relief program. Come on, do yourself and the world a favor. Volunteer.
Why you should do it: Karma. Good karma.
2. “我知道你心地善良。我能拥有这么一品质吗？”
嗯，上面的引用显得有点感伤，可怜，档次有点低，但起码你领悟到了它其中的意思。没有什么比对世界贡献自己的人更能打动别人。这正是安吉利娜茱莉和布拉彼特那么受欢迎的原因。是的，外表上，他们都是俊男美女，但当他们在越南做慈善工作的时候，却更有魅力。
要想找个有张漂亮面孔的人是容易的。但要想找个有着漂亮面孔和美丽心灵的人，却是有点困难。假如你想要找个身心俱美的人，你去当自愿者吧。然而去做什么志愿者还是有点技巧的。你得谨慎选择。比如，你是个男生，你大可不必志愿去做消防员，因为你能找到女生的机会是微乎其微。假如你是同性恋，那么，就志愿去做消防员吧。
不管怎样，重点是你确定你想共度余生的人在乎的不仅仅是自己，还包括其他人。 如果你做志愿者或做一些慈善工作，你将会遇见一些无私的人，而那些人却永远把别人利益排在第一。但如果他在乎别人，那么他肯定会更在乎他所爱的人。你不想被这么一个人爱着吗?圣诞节时，打扮成圣诞老人。灾难发生时，加入救援项目。加油，为自己，为世界做点贡献，做志愿者吧。
这么做的理由：好人有好报。

1. “Come find me.”
Waiting for my prince charmingYou can do all the ways mentioned above but you may still end up not finding the person of your dreams. Sometimes, to be able to find your one true love, you don’t need to look for it. All you need is wait and let that person find you. It does not mean, however, that you will lock yourself up in a tower and wait for your Prince Charming to ask you to let down your hair. While you’re waiting, learn to love yourself in all aspects. Take care of your health and make sure you are in good shape. Be optimistic, stay happy and don’t let stress make you look and feel old. Do the things you enjoy doing and celebrate life all the time. Make yourself a better person everyday. In this way, you don’t have to go looking for true love; it will find you effortlessly. Even when you feel that it’s taking too long, live your life without worrying about being alone and lonely. True love comes when you least expect it. When it finally comes, you know you are ready and complete.
Why you should do it: Because you are so damn beautiful.
1.“来找我吧。”
你可能尝试了以上的种种方法，结果却仍未见效。有时，想要得到真爱，并不一定要去寻找。你所要做的只是等待，等待别人找到自己。但这并不是说你得把自己关在塔上，等待你的白马王子出现。在等待过程中，你得学习从各方面爱自己。关注自己的身体，确保自己的体型在最佳的状态。乐观，保持开心，别让压力折腾地你身心俱疲，老态尽显。做自己喜欢做的事情，把每一天都当成节日。每一天都提升自己。如此一来，你不需要去寻找真爱，它会毫不费力地找上你。即使你认为这耗时太长，但你也不要让孤独和寂寞烦扰着你。爱情，往往最让人措手不及。当它降临了，你就知道你准备好了，那时，你将是个完整的自己。
这么做的理由：因为你是如此的美丽。