100 Questions To Know Your Partner Take off the mask, and be the real you!

Ever noticed that when you first meet someone, you always put your best foot forward? There's certainly nothing wrong with that, as long as it's the real you!

Nobody wants to later feel like "I can't believe that they feel that way" So while you're in the "getting to know you" phase, here's some great and intimate questions to spur conversation and honesty.

100 QUESTIONS FOR COUPLES

1.What was the first thing that attracted you about me?

2.Do you think that physical attributes are more important to maintaining a successful relationship or do you think that friendship maintains a relationship?

3.When you look at a woman, what is the first thing you notice?

4.Do you think it's ok to keep noticing another woman after you are in a committed relationship? Does this change when you are married?

5.What is the first thing that you notice when you look at a man?

6.If I don't say so, how do you know that I want to make love?

7.Describe the way I smell.

8.Tell me how you describe me to other people?

9.How often do you believe it is normal to want sex?

10.Do you masturbate?

11.How do you feel if I come into the bathroom when you are using the facilities?

12.When was the last time you took a shower together?

13.If your friend was cheating on their spouse, do you think you should tell their partner?

14.If your friend was cheating on their spouse, would you tell your spouse about it?

15.What were you thinking about right before you kissed me for the first time?

16.After I had asked you out for the first time, did you consider saying no?

17.Was there anything that you were worried about the first time we were about to become naked?

18.How old were you when you had your first kiss?

19.How old were you the first time you had sex?

20.How old were you the first time you thought you were in love?

21.Who helped you figure out how to ask someone out on your first date?

22.Did you parents tell you about sex, or did you already know?

23.Describe your parents marriage. What was the best part and the worst part in your opinion?

24.Who was the first person who died in your life and how did you feel?

25.What animals do you like and not like?

26.Describe your perfect dream date.

27.Describe your perfect wedding.

28.Do you have sexual dreams? Tell me about some of them.

29.What is the most important thing that money can do for you?

30.Who had control of the money when you were growing up?

31.How did you learn what it meant to be a man/woman?

32.Do you believe in God?

33.If money were no object, what is the one thing that would be most important to you to do?

34.If you had one day to live, what would you do?

35.If you won the lottery, what would you like to accomplish?

36.If you gave money to charity, which ones would you choose and why?

37.Have you ever been cruel to an animal?

38.When you were a child, did you ever experiment sexually with another child?

39.Were you ever sexually, emotionally, or verbally abused?

40.Can you tell me what makes up your belief systems?

41.Who is the person you admire most and why?

42.What is the one thing that would be a relationship breaker for you?

43.How important do you think monogamy is to a relationship?

44.Who do you believe is the dominant one in a relationship and why?

45.How do you feel about having children?

46.Describe your philosophy on personal debt.

47.What is the one thing that I do that makes you crazy?

48.If you were really in trouble, who would you go to for advice?

49.Who do you feel responsible for in your life?

50.What are you beliefs about abortion?

51.How important do you believe organized religion is in a couples relationship?

52.Tell me when you first knew you loved me?

53.How do you handle anger? Has it ever caused a problem in your life?

54.How do you think divorce affects the couple involved?

55.What do you think should determine when a couple has a child?

56.How do you plan to handle the aging of your parents?

57.If you died today, how would you like your final arrangements handled?

58.What do you think happens to you when you die?

59.If you were going to write a book, what would it be about?

60.Where is the one place that you want to go and why?

61.If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?

62.If you won the lottery, would you continue working?

63.Do you feel that you have ever shown prejudice to another person?

64.Who is your very best friend and why?

65.How did you choose the career you are in?

66.What is one thing that could happen that would make your day?

67.List things that constitute self care.

68.What is the most unselfish thing that you think you have ever done?

69.Do you believe in ghosts?

70.What would you want people to say about you after you had passed away?

71.What is your goal for the next 12 months? How do you plan to reach it?

72.Do you feel that you have enough education?

73.What was the biggest mistake you think you ever made and how did it change your life?

74.If you found someone's wallet, what would you do with it?

75.Do you feel that one partner in a couple should be able to vacation alone?

76.What is important in a marriage to you?

77.What led up to your decision to get married? Why did you decide the time and person were right?

78.What is the last book you read? What was the most important reason for reading that book?

79.Do you think that taking a pen or scratch pad home from work is stealing?

80.Do you have a sexual fantasy that you haven't acted out?

81.Have you ever experimented with someone of the same sex? What is your opinion of homosexuality?

82.Do you vote for the same party every election? Why?

83.When you are depressed, what do you do or how do you act? What do you do to overcome the depression?

84.Have you ever achieved a New Year's resolution?

85.Who has the primary responsibility in marriage for raising the children?

86.What is the one thing that you'd like to change about yourself?

87.Have I ever embarrassed you?

88.If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?

89.What is the biggest regret in your life?

90.What is the biggest "known" secret in your family that nobody talks about?

91.What was your favorite age to be and why?

92.Do you believe that couples should keep separate bank accounts ? Who controls the money?

93.What do you do to make your partner happy that you don't particularly like to do?

94.What is something that I do sexually that you like and don't think that I do often enough?

95.What age do you think people are old and how do you think that changes their lives?

96.Do you think it is sometimes necessary to put aging parents in nursing homes?

97.Do you think that animals have souls?

98.If you could ask me one question, what would that be?

99.How do you know when I'm mad?

100.What is the one thing that you think that I could do that would hurt you the worst?

101.What do I cook that you are tired of?

102.If I were to cook something to surprise you, what would you like it to be?

103.What did you think the first time you met my mother and father?

104.After divorce, what do you think that parents could do to make the transition easier on the children?

105.Do you think that children of divorce are more likely to later be the victim of divorce?

106.How long do you think a person should spend alone between relationship?

107.Do you think men love differently than women?

108.If you are a man, what is the one thing that you think it would be important for a woman to know about men or vice versa!

109.Do you think marriage counseling works and why or why not?

110.Define love?

111.Describe yourself if you can't use profession/marital status?

112.What is the most important thing in your life?

113.What are you most ashamed of and why?

114.Do you believe that an internet affair is actually an affair?

115.Have you ever dated a married man/woman?

116.How would you describe your moral values?

117.How do you think you teach children moral values?

118.Who should talk to the children about sex and when?

119.What part do you think that you play in a child's education?

120.What is your opinion of paying child support and/or alimony?

121.What do you think makes successful people successful?

122.What is the first memory you have?

123.Did you have a pet growing up and which was your favorite?

124.What is the thing that you fear most?

125.What would change in your life if you had total responsibility for your life and could never blame anyone else for anything?

126.What is the one thing that you wish that I would tell you?

127.When do you think that it is OK to keep a secret and why?

128.Do you believe that there are degrees of a lie?

129. How do you feel about romantic destinations as a part of your lifestyle?

聊着聊着就找不着话题了？经常抱怨对方不懂自己的感受？……没关系。我们为您罗列了128个绝佳的问题，每个都是一个好话题，亦是一次重新认识对方的机会。

一、懂你懂我

1.我哪一点最吸引你？

7.描述一下我的味道。

8.私下你是如何向别人描述我的？

15.你第一次吻我之前在想些什么？

16.我第一次把你约出来的时候你考虑过拒绝我吗？

17.我们第一次面对对方裸体的时候，你有担心过什么吗？

18.初吻时是几岁？

19.初夜是何时？

20.初恋时你多大？

47.我做过的哪件事很让你生气？

52.告诉我，你是何时发觉爱上我的？

87.我使你难堪过吗？

88.如果你能够改变我的一个方面，那会是什么呢？

98.如果你打算问我一个问题，你会问什么？

99.你是如何察觉我在生气的？

100.你觉得我能够伤害你最深的一件事会是什么？

101.我做的哪道菜你已经吃厌了？

102.如果我想在餐桌上给你一个惊喜，你希望是哪道菜呢？

二、耳鬓厮磨

2.你认为是性还是感情维持着一段完美的恋情？

13.如果你的朋友偷腥，你觉得你应该告诉他的伴侣吗？

14.如果你的朋友偷腥，你会让他的伴侣知道吗？

21.你的第一次约会是在哪位“老师”的指导下完成的？

26.描述一下你心中完美的约会。

42.什么会让你慧剑斩情丝？

44.你认为在恋爱中谁会占主导地位，为什么？

75.一个人去度假，另一个人独自在家，你会怎么想？

107.你认为男人的爱与女人的爱是不同的吗？

108.作为男性（女性），你认为女性（男性）最有必要知道的是什么？

110.给爱情下个定义。

114.网恋算是真正的恋爱吗？

115.你约过有夫之妇（有妇之夫）吗？

129.浪漫的度假作为你生活方式的一部分，你有何感受？

三、两性话题

3.当你看到一个女性，你最先注意的是她的哪一部位？

4.你觉得热恋中还继续关注其他女人是否不妥？婚后会有所改变吗？

5.当你看到一个男性，你最先注意的是他的哪一部位？

6.我不说，你又是如何知道我想亲热呢？

9.你认为多长时间亲热一回算是不频繁啊？

10.你自慰吗？

11.你用洗手间的时候我的进入会让你作何感想？

12.我们最近洗一次鸳鸯浴是什么时候？

28.做过春梦吧？说说看。

38.当你还小屁孩的时候，与异性小朋友有过重口味接触吗？

80.你还有什么尚未实现的性幻想吗？

81.尝试过与同性亲热吗？谈谈你对同性恋的看法。

94.做爱时你最想要我的哪一招？

四、谈婚论嫁

27.你心中完美的婚礼是什么样子的？

43.你认为一夫一妻制很重要吗？

45.婚后会要孩子吗？

50.你对堕胎的看法是？

51.宗教信仰对婚姻影响很大吗？

54.离婚对于夫妇双方有何影响？

55.什么因素会让你决定要一个孩子？

76.婚姻对你来说最重要的是什么？

77.什么因素会让你决定结婚？你又是如何确定人选和时机的？

85.婚后谁来管孩子？

92.你认为夫妻双方应该财政独立吗？或者谁来掌握经济大权？

104.离婚后，你认为父母该做些什么去让孩子适应？

105.你认为孩子是离婚的受害者吗？

106.婚姻中个人该有多少独处的时间？

109.你认为婚姻咨询服务有效吗？为什么？

117.你会如何培养孩子的道德价值观？

118.谁该对孩子进行性启蒙？当孩子多大时呢？

119.你认为自身该在孩子的教育中扮演怎样的角色？

120.你对用在孩子身上的开销有何看法？

五、赡养父母

22.你父母对你做过性启蒙吗？或者你自学的？

23.说说你父母的婚姻。你感觉最美好和最糟糕的分别是哪一部分？

30.你父母抚养你的时候，你家谁管钱？

56.你打算如何赡养年老的父母？

93.你不经意做的哪件事最让父母开心？

96.你觉得有必要间或把父母送进养老院吗？

103.你第一次见我父母时有什么感想？

六、生老病死

24.你亲友中谁最先过世？说说你那时的感受。

34.如果你的生命只剩下一天，你会如何度过？

57.如果你今天就会死去，你打算如何安排自己的葬礼？

58.你觉得死亡时会发生什么？

67.列举一下有关自我保健的事物。

70.你希望死后人们对你的评价是什么？

91.最想活在哪一岁？为什么？

95.你认为人在哪一岁开始衰老？它又是如何改变人们生活的？

七、杂七杂八

25.你喜欢什么动物，不喜欢什么？

29.你认为钱最重要的功能是？

31.你是如何学到作为男性（女性）所应具备的品质的？

32.你相信神吗？

33.如果金钱不再是目标，你最大的追求会是什么？

35.如果你中了彩票，会去做什么呢？

36.如果你打算为慈善事业捐款，你会捐给哪一协会（工程）？

37.是否虐待过动物？

39.你曾被性虐待（心理虐待、辱骂）过吗？

40.可以告诉我支持你的信念的是什么吗？

41.你最欣赏谁？为什么？

46.谈谈你在个人债务方面的行为准则。

48.当你陷入困境时会向谁请教？

49.你认为谁在为你生活负责？

53.你是如何压住怒火的？它造成过麻烦吗？

59.如果你打算写本书，你会写些什么呢？

60.你现在最想去哪儿？为什么？

61.如果可能，你最想住在哪儿？为什么？

62.如果你中了彩票，还会继续上班吗？

63.当你对某人有偏见时，你是怎么想的？

64.你最好的朋友是谁？为什么？

65.你是如何选择现在这项事业的？

66.现实一点的说，什么事情会让你快乐一整天？

68.你做过的最无私的是哪件事？

69.你相信世上有鬼吗？

71.你今后12个月中的目标是什么？打算如何实现？

72.你对自己的受教育程度满意吗？

73.你曾犯下的最大的错误是什么？它是如何改变你人生的？

74.如果你捡到一个钱包，你会怎么做？

78.最近读了哪本书？阅读它主要的原因是什么？

79.你认为把办公室的笔或便笺本带回家算偷窃吗？

83.当你感到沮丧时，你会做些什么，行为会因此有何不同？你又是如何克服沮丧的呢？

84.是否实现过年初制定的目标？

86.希望改变自己的什么？

89.你人生中最后悔的事是？

90.你家最大的“公开的秘密”是？

97.你认为动物有灵魂吗？

111.不涉及职业和婚姻的状况，描述一下你自己。

112.你人生中最重要的事是？

113.最让你感到羞耻的事是什么？为什么？

116.简述一下你自己的道德价值观。

121.促使成功人士成功的因素有哪些？谈谈自己的见解。

122.你生命中最早的记忆是什么？

123.你养大过宠物吗？最爱哪一只？

124.你最害怕什么？

125.如果你得独自为自己的生活负责，不能指望任何人，你的生活会发生哪些变化？

126.你最希望我向你坦白什么？

127.你认为何时该保守秘密？为什么？

128.你认为谎言有度吗？