1. Don't steal other people's things. Yes, we all like to borrow a stapler or mug every now and again, but return it. Nothing is more infuriating however minor it seems. 借了同事的东西一定要归还。

2. Be trustworthy. If you are told a secret once and you share it, don't ever expect to be trusted again. 做个值得信赖的人，不要到处传话。

3. Don't expect your colleagues to carry your workload. The working week ends on Friday afternoon - not Thursday lunchtime.自己分内的工作自己完成。

4. Acknowledge other people's successes with good grace and good humor. 真心赞赏同事的成就。

5. Remember, if you're gossiping and backstabbing someone, that person will assume you are doing it about them, too. In the office, be kind, considerate and keep your nose clean. 办公室里不议论他人，不攻击他人。

6. To make the right decisions and push them through, you will need the kid gloves more often than the boxing gloves. 做出一个正确的决定并去实现它，你更需要的是哄小孩的耐性，而不是要和自己的同事拼个你死我活。

现在，你已经和上司、同事之间关系融洽，相处和谐，那么接下来，你需要做的就是充分在众人面前展露自我，露出锋芒。